I’ve shared that just over a year ago I moved away from a job I’d been doing for 19 years. It was such a mixture of trepidation and relief at the same time. When I started writing again after having not for a very long time, I was able to release the fear and embrace the freedom that my decision had brought and there was a lot of joy in that. Recently, though, I’ve discovered that I have not totally let go of the reasons I came to the decision I did to quit my job. There are definitely still some unresolved feelings about that time. I realized I had stuffed those feelings. Now I’m trying to one by one work through them. Writing always helps me process so I’ve been doing that – letting the feelings flow out onto the paper. But I find that sometimes they still want to surface and I have that tendency to shove them back down instead of taking the time and space to release them. So I’ve made a list of what those feelings are and where they come from so that in my morning quiet time I can meditate and pray through them one at a time. Sometimes I have to revisit something on the list, but I’m progressing and allowing myself to embrace the future without the burden of that part of my past. One day at a time! Thanks, Graham, for another great poem to ponder – beautiful morning setting!
Cathey - Amen to that. Those toxic negative feelings still surface for me also from time to time. Like you, that morning quiet time through prayer, I try to work thru them when it occurs. If not, I will ask a friend to pray for me on my behalf so I do not go back down the same rabbit hole. I too am journaling a lot more often than I used to, and it does tremendously help. We're all a work in progress.
Good on you Anne. I too have reached out to friends & the support is amazing. I'm so glad you are finding ways to deal with those negative feelings as they rise up. I wish you all the very best. 💖🙏
Christine - I totally agree. We need to let ourselves be vulnerable as that is how we all grow. I'm so glad you're doing this also. Take care and blessings to you!
Cathey I just want to tell you how impressed I am with the organized approach you have taken to fear based feelings. I believe those are the most difficult ones to resolve because most often they are self-manufactured. Once light finally shines upon them, their power is lost. Bravo friend! 🙏🏻💜
Thank you, Sherry! I really appreciate this. Organized is my m.o. but I have to say that it's not always as pretty as it sounds. Certain things have been a huge struggle and has involved a lot of revisiting the steps I know I need to take. It's a day by day by day thing. Thanks for your encouragement!
You are very brave to take the steps you have taken. Thank you for sharing your journey. Prayers for continued success. I also have trouble letting go completely of some things from my past. I have found that for me forgiveness is necessary for the hurts that pop up. Sometimes that forgiveness does not come so easily for me but I continue to work on it.
That's a huge piece of the puzzle, Leigh, and forgiveness is something I am continuing to work on. That may be the toughest one of all. Sometimes I feel brave and sometimes not so much. Thanks for your support and encouragement.
oh Cathey, first of all, you are such an honest, lovable and brave person. any idea how hard it was for you to quit your job and figure out how to move on. The courage to write, and publish it is already a lot.
We always come back to our lists, it's healthy and natural.
I appreciate having met you, being able to read you has taught me and accompanied me in this last year.
What a lovely and supportive comment, Silvina. You've been with me on this journey for many months now. I feel completely blessed by you and so many others who have encouraged me to keep following my heart. Much love to you! 💕
Cathey, I get stuck on some past issues and although I've resolved and released many I somehow still have a couple of nagging ones. Maybe they stay as a reminder of what I don't want again? Who knows. But I'm a much " lighter" version of myself these days...and I know you are too!
Thank you, Barbara! I try hard not to live in the past, but of course, all of our pasts affect us and are part of who we are. It's when we let the past stop us from moving forward that we need to work through how we feel about those events. We're all just works in progress, I think, but hopefully continuing to move ahead!
Thank you, Connie. Sometimes courage comes when you are forced to be brave or choose to let the past hold you back. I am happy to share my journey - hope it helps someone else in some small way.
You should be proud of all that you have done and are doing. I am proud of you & how you share your beautiful poems and thoughts. We all struggle with things that come back to us & I'm so glad that you have found a way to deal with this. You are a true inspiration. 💖
I can't take credit for doing what I do. Yes, I put in the work and try to stay open to going the direction I'm pointed to, but I am very human and flawed and still have to overcome my own overthinking and doubts. I guess we all do, right? I so appreciate your constant encouragement, especially on the days I'm not feeling so proud of myself. 💕
Thanks Graham for sharing another powerful and thought provoking poem that made me think and reflect.For me when I’m feeling heavy and weighted down, what helps me to release and let go is something simple like a walk at the beach and watching the sunset. It always helps and makes me feel better. It’s the simple things in life that matter. I also have been journaling a lot, I write everything down,that also helps a lot. Also listening to music works for me as well . 🙏💖
Your comment reminds me of the poem Footprints. When we walk on the beach we see only one set of footprints because God is carrying you. I know He has you.
Irene, I keep reminding myself daily that the simple things in life are what matter the most.
My health, family, friends, fresh air and naturally grown healthy food. This amazing group of friends, which is a simple thing for us thanks to Graham, has made such an impact on so many of us. Let’s all keep remembering what the important things are- the simple things🥰
I totally agree Vicky. It has taken me a long time to really appreciate this fact. We need to realize what is truly important in our lives and those things are the simple ones.
Irene - Amen to all the above. I don't have the beach setting, but I'm so fortunate to have some of those nature trails or parks to walk through that are very close by. That walk on the beach and on the sand was totally awesome and very peaceful!
As I have gotten older I find that I seek out more of those quiet times where I can reflect and just listen to my heart. And being outside whenever possible just makes it so much better.
Thanks Christine , I wish you could join me and Teresa as we are going on a sunset cruise on the 3rd of July when she comes to Darwin. I can't wait ! I promise we will take lots of photos to show you !!
Graham - another beautiful poem. I was actually reflecting on this the other day. For me, it started with forgiveness. Forgiving myself for holding on to things that I self-imposed on myself. I have to admit that was NOT easy to do. This was done through daily prayer/meditation and reading a daily devotion that is Biblically based. I could not move forward to where I am now in life if I did not put to rest those regrets and resentments of the past. It was the first step I took to love and appreciate myself. I still have the daily prayer/meditation or quiet time as I call it with God each and every morning. If I don't start my day off with that, I will not be whom God wants me to be. I serve God as well as taking care of myself now. That morning prayer/daily devotional time that I spend with God each morning is the guiding light that takes me through each and every day. This physical and wellness journey that is my current destiny has opened me up and out of my comfort zone in so many amazing ways. I continue to walk almost daily. Some of those walks are prayer walks and on some, I just listen to praise and worship music.
By sharing this journey with others, I'm hoping God will use this to encourage or bless just one person. If that happens, that makes me so happy, humbled, and blessed. It will all be worth it. It also holds me accountable. For those of you who don't know, I will start sharing this journey called "One Day at a Time" on substack very soon. God revealed the title of the blog/newsletter to me over the weekend while I was at the beach. If you wish to subscribe, go to annewooten.substack.com. I am not a writer, but I plan on sharing this journey publicly from the heart and feel the call from God to do so.
Graham, thank you for another beautifully written and inspirational poem. Take care and Cheers!
This is a new beginning for you! You will be able to help others with your journey. I am glad you decided to write on Substack. You always know what to say and how to make a person feel at peace. And not to mention your musical abilities. Add some music to your Substack entries!!!! Keep up the good work!
I am going to subscribe. So how do you set up a blog/newsletter like you did? I feel like I have a lot to help others with and would love to do something like this. My email is lkdennis777@gmail.com if you don't mind sharing. I am SO over social media and would love a new outlet.
Hi Lynette - I just emailed you and shared with you how I set mine up. I'm learning as I go. Email me if you have any other questions. Take care my friend, and I look forward to subscribing to yours also! God bless!
Thanks Cathey! This is very new for me, but I need to let that vulnerable side of me out and share the highs and lows of this journey. We all truly learn from one another! Take care my friend and God bless you!
You will pick it all up in no time. There's a bit of a learning curve, but you can make it simple and then go from there. Excited to see the first one!
It takes a lot to do what you're doing & to share. I know this. It has taken more than half my life before I started to reveal about the trauma of my upbringing. It has taken even more, to admit to other trauma s of my past.
I wish you all the best with your substack & your journey forward. 💖🙏
Thanks Christine! It takes courage, but more than that, I feel God is leading me to do this to encourage others. That's what is all about for me. Most of my past was self-imposed, but I can only look forward and take this one day at a time. Wish you all the best! Blessings and Cheers!
Thanks Irene! It's coming. Gathering all the thoughts right now and praying for God to lead me in the right format. I'll post something soon! Take care my friend! Cheers!
I love this new journey that you are starting Anne! Your comments about that it starts with forgiveness, that is certainly true. That this the ultimate self-love. Thank you for bringing that point up.
Thank you so much for being willing to share your journey with us. I’ve already subscribed and can’t wait to read your stories. Prayers for success as you continue to step out of your comfort zone.🙏🙏
I subscribed Anne, looking forward to following your journey. You definitely have inspired me with walking. It definitely helps me physically and mentally. I have mentioned that to you before. Have a great day!
Thanks Maria! I'm agree with you 100%. It does me too! It clears the cobwebs and motivates me to keep going. I'm right there with you! Take care and blessings to you!
Thank you,Graham, for this thought provoking poem. They are always so deep, rewarding and inspirational.
I was tied up for years in the ropes of shame because I got pregnant out of wedlock when I was 17. I was sent off to a home for unwed mothers to stay until I delivered the baby, who would then be put up for adoption. That was the plan anyway.
When I gave birth to this precious baby boy, I saw his face and fell in love. I convinced my parents to let me keep him. They fell in love with him too. They wanted to assume the role of parents to him. I would not allow that. He came home with me/us.
I had no idea what I was in for at 17. I was way too immature and dependent to be a mother. So after 5 months of mothering him I decided the best thing for him would be to have 2 loving parents and siblings. So I did give him up for adoption when he was 5 months old. It hurt, but I knew that was what was best for him.
I lived in the tangled up ropes of shame for many years until he located me when he was 37.
I never shared about him to colleagues or new friends.
I came to Christ and was a new creation. My mind took a long time to grasp that. After he found me, I didn’t care who knew about it or what they thought. I was free of the guilt and shame.
We now have a great relationship and our son has an older step brother. I have four grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren with one more on the way. The Lord has made something beautiful of my life!
The ropes were loosened when I decided to not let mistakes of the past define or control my future. I live for the beauty of each new day and person I meet. If I can help anyone along the way, that makes me grateful and happy.
What a powerful, sweet story of how our past mistakes can be redeemed. I'm so glad that you and your son reunited and that he has an active role in your life. It's so hard for some to understand how freeing it can be to have our sins and mistakes forgiven by Jesus and the new lease on life that He gives us. Thanks for sharing such a personal story
What an emotional yet uplifting story, a perfect example of letting go of the past and moving forward into the beautiful future God had planned for you. I am so glad you reunited with your son and now have a relationship with him. Continued blessings.
Debbie this is a heartfelt testimony of a time in your life. A time where you had to make a tough decision at such a young age. I am so glad for both of you that the reunion was so beautiful and rewarding. thank you for sharing with us such a personal matter. I hope you find years of happiness and continue to loosen the ropes of the past
Debbie - what a story and testimony my friend! I am so glad you and your son reunited and are now in each other's lives. This is truly amazing and I am so glad you shared. I can tell God has truly blessed you! May he continue to do so!
Your last paragraph says what all of us should remember- to not let mistakes of the past define or control the future- a powerful statement!!! So happy for you being able to connect with your son and build a relationship with a new beginning and a beautiful future😍
What an emotional story. I'm so glad that you were able to stop feeling ashamed & have been able to reconnect with your son & now have a wonderful relationship. 🙏💖
Susan thank you for sharing you beautiful story. I’m so happy for you and your son that you were able to reunite. God sure has blessed you both. Now your able to help those in the same way God bless you and your son.
You did a great and right decision .It was the Lord who made the right track for you to go on your journey .Your path is now clear and the fig in your life were all cleared. It pays to know and have a close relationship with the Lord.
Debbie, your story is beautiful. Start to finish. There is no shame whatsoever, only a heart full of love for your child. You gave him a gift you considered to be more important than yourself. I admire you. It just have take. So much strength to make that decision. That makes you a very special and generous person. 🙏🏻💜
Thank you Sherry. That’s how I looked at it too. God has a way of weaving a beautiful tapestry of love in our lives. Sometimes we only see the back, but He sees the finished Masterpiece. Bless you!
Debbie what a beautiful story. I applaud you for making the hardest decision ever, and realizing that the child would be better off with two loving parents. It was the right decision for you at that point in your life. How wonderful that he reached out to you and you have built a wonderful life. So happy for you!!!
Thank you Kathleen. He now knows and agrees I did the right thing. When he heard how much we loved him and wanted him I believe that softened his heart.
Thank you! The beauty of first meeting him was so precious because when I opened my door to meet him and his wife, he handed me my 5 month old granddaughter.
Susan. I think I know how you feel. I was blessed that my son found me. I cried the day he called me “Mom” and introduced me to his significant people as his mom. Things were so different back then. Now so many people choose to have children without marriage. I agree with you that God will take care of her and I pray that you one day have the joy of being reunited. Bless you!
So sorry Susan that you haven't been able to find your daughter. I can't even imagine how hard that would be. As you said, your faith in God & belief is that she has had a good life & continues to do so. Blessings to you both. 🙏
Wow this is very in depth Graham to process for myself since my beautification journey. I am working very slowly to process my fear and move forward to my destiny. Today I realized and feel worthy allowing my mind to refreshed and see myself through God’s eyes. Some ideas thoughts and dreams that need to bring this world, someday’s many days and times I thought not worthy or cherished. Somedays I thought I am worthy and cherished many times we allow our broken or worldly pieces to define us. The temper we lost , laundry filed up, the way we responded to a friend, the things we wish we did and should of said, the to do list that’s not finished yet or extra pounds peering us on the scale. These things are NOT a definition of your worth or a destination of your destiny. God knows your struggles or my struggles and wants to be your comforter , your healer, your captain navigating these seas of life , he has a plan uprising, rest victories. He hears our cries , catches tears and celebrate triumphs. Reach out to him in faith today and allow him to lead according to his plan. You are Valuable! You are Worthy!
“ But seek ye first kingdom of God; and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” ( Matthew 6:33 ) KJV
Thank you Anne being vulnerable to share my fast medical and I am braving to share thru here our community of amazing humans that lift each other’s up.My therapist said baby steps 🙏❤️
I can't say I've untied any ropes from my past yet, I lost my soul mate 16 months ago to Covid and I'm still trying to navigate life without him. Graham your poems have been a blessing for me and being a part of this Substack community and also cameo has also been a blessing. I feel that I have gained knowledge from those who have been through trials and I thank you all for sharing your experience's. Another great poem Graham 😊❤️
I lost my husband to Parkinson’s Disease 18 months ago. As a believer, I know where his soul is but it does not make it easier to travel this road alone. My heart felt condolences to everyone experiencing this pain. I am thankful the Lord led me to Graham and his poems. He is a blessing.
Trudy I am so sorry for your loss. I couldn’t imagine losing my spouse. I do know what it’s like to lose a family member. My sister passed 5yrs ago this last March to colon cancer. God never takes those he knows he’s not done with. He must need us still here for a reason. God never does things to hurt us he wants us to look to him when we are weary. When you need your husband ask and he will be there when you need to talk he will listen. God made him an Angel just for you like he did for me. One more thing you are not alone we are here with you to give support and a listening ear when you need it as well. God bless you Trudy stay strong you’ll get thru this I know you will.
I’m so sorry for your lose as well. To lose so many loved ones in a short time is unbearable. I will be praying for you and that God continues to bless you in so many ways. Take care my dear friend.
I know Parkinson's is a cruel disease. I hope you get some comfort from the care you took of him through those debilitating times. I so hope you can know you are not alone.
I can't begin to know how profound your missing is. I do know that the love you shared with him and the devotion you showed him in your caring will NEVER die. He will always be with you. Perhaps, in a comfortable place, you can talk to him or write him a letter. Whatever is still present in your physical life that is a source of joy - a relative, a friend, I pray for you to find some comfort.
So sorry for your loss Trudy🙏. Losing a loved one isn't easy, no matter what you believe. They aren't there anymore & it's hard not to miss them dearly.
I have mentioned the loss of my dad (2019), uncle(2019), aunt (2021) & mum (2021), on this site before. I know they are all together, but at times it's hard.
Leah, I lost my husband to ALS 2 1/2 months ago and I am trying to do the same with my life without him. In the process of selling my house but I pray to god everyday to get me through tough days. Graham and this wonderful community definitely has been helping me as well. You are in my prayers 🙏🏻
I've only known one person, a friend, who died of ALS. My heart goes out to you. I know you are a person of strength to have seen him through such a horrible disease. You did your best for him, I know, so there is no question you have God given inner strength. We are here for you. There are others in your life who can comfort you. Please don't hold back. Talk about him. Talk about the pain and frustration. You can even be mad at God. He will understand. I hope memories of the good times with your husband can eventually ease your heart. Blessings to you,
Thank you Patty for your kind words. It definitely was a horrible disease. It was hard to see him decline. His mind was strong but his body was giving up which was hard for him. I do question god but then I do ask for strength and for him to help me through tough times. He is not suffering anymore which gives me peace. I do miss him so much but I do know he is with me in spirit. Thanks again I am so thankful I found Graham through Heartland and now it is so nice to be apart of this caring community it definitely gives inspiration and comfort. 💗
Donna, how kind of you to send Maria hugs. There is no consolation stronger than one from someone who has same cirucmstances. The friend I lost to ALS many years ago was a college classmate. She was in a nursing home when her daughter's wedding day came. She insisted all the other family members attend the wedding. One way I have found to "loosen ropes" is to remember in a non bragging way something I was able to do that I know was a good thing. Email had just caught on. With help from other friends, I was able to create a schedule for one of us to be with our ALS patient friend that entire weekend. (Her daughter and new husband did come to the nursing home immediately after the ceremony.)
I'm sorry for your loss Maria it's definitely the hardest thing I've ever done. I pray daily also and I know that God does not give us anything we can't handle. I'll be praying for you as well
Leah my prayers go out to for being so strong. I have a friend she to lost her husband to ALS last year. That illness wasn’t fair to you or him. You were so strong in taking care of him as long as you did. He is so thankful for you. He is now in Gods care and living his best life with God. Knowing that should bring you comfort. I will be praying for you and that you will find comfort in all of Gods glory. Also we are here for you to lend a listening ear when needed.
Leah, my condolences to you on your loss. I know what you are experiencing as I lost my husband several years ago. What I can share with you is to give yourself time, take things one step at a time, allow your emotions to flow through you, and trust your faith. When I was trying to navigate the new path, I thought I had to have everything I order, be strong ,not let my heart feel the pain or show emotions, once I let go of those preconceived “ ideas” of what I supposed to do, and trusted my faith to guide me the path was easier to navigate. Blessings to you.
Thank you Linda One step at a time is for sure, my family is very supportive but it's nice to have others who have gone through a similar experience. The hardest thing for me right now is watching how hard it's been for my three daughters and grandkids they miss him too
Navigating life without the person which you thought you would grow old together with is hard, but we wake up each morning, put one front in front of the other and proceed through life the best we can. My husband passed away too early at the age of 50. My comfort comes when I start my car and our favorite song comes on the radio, or as a cardinal flies to a branch on a tree in front of the kitchen window as I wash dishes, as a cool breeze goes by my face on a hot day, and as a penny from Heaven appears when 2 seconds earlier there was not one. Each of these examples are easy to explain, but I would rather believe it is my angel in Heaven saying hello. Be aware for signs from Heaven😇
 thank you Kathy I have a good days and I have not so good days the 25th of this month would've been our 34th wedding anniversary so that's gonna be a rough day they say the first's are the worst but I'm not finding the seconds are any better. I have three girls that all live near me so they make those days better by spending time with me
What I know of grief is that it's different for everyone and it's sneaky! Pops up even at unexpected times. I'm glad you have your daughters close to help you on the rough days.
Music can definitely bring up feelings and memories. I remember crying once over a television commercial. But I think that release is ok, too. Time definitely helps, but for now, let yourself feel and respond however you need to. 💕
I'm so sorry for your loss Leah. It's a difficult time to lose a loved one. Covid has taken so much & I pray that you can continue to find the strength to move forward. Not easy. I'm also glad you have met people through this community that have been there for you & that you are able to share with them what you are going through. Knowing that you are supported is a blessing indeed. 🙏💖
Not quite sure those ropes of the past can ever be totally untied, Graham. We have that past no matter what. We just need to release the urge to crawl back on those ropes. We are who we are because of what happened back there...like it or not. I've gnawed at some of those ropes for years. Many of them are so thin now I would be unable to crawl back on them. So I don't. The rope that led to the heartbreak of a marriage that didn't last is nearly gone. But not cut completely. How could it be? There are children and grandchildren filling my days with love and joy in the present. Where did they come from? The other end of that marriage rope! So yes, we can cut through much of it but we never should cut through all of it. We'd be in a completely different Present then...wouldn't we? And we need to embrace our present to the point where the temptation to turn our head and reach out for one of those ropes doesn't pull us in.
Now by choice I'll visit one of those sweet memories made in the past. Just a short visit though.
Yeah...there are painful memories there too. And I've glanced back now and then at those....and I'd like to untie one of those ropes in particular. But that one, I'm unable to. I don't visit that one very often and if I do, I don't beat myself up about it like I used to. It isn't fully resolved but it is more understood now. I've made a peace with it and I'm content. That peace has allowed me to feel more confident in myself and my decisions. My now is a sweet, comfortable place. And I know my future will be taken care of because I'm taking care of myself right here in the present.
"You did then what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better." - Maya Angelou
Since my sons have their own home we have been cleaning out their bedrooms they grew up in. Pictures with past girlfriends, notes passed to each other, sports memorabilia, and life time keepsakes are found. They want to throw these keepsakes that meant something to them away. I keep reminding them what you wrote at the beginning- we are what we are because of what happened back then. Your past is what makes you who you are today. We need to work through our knotted ropes but without focusing and staying stagnant. Sometimes the time has come to move on.
Wow Graham you sure do know how to make a person stop and think about their life. I can honestly say that I have never learnt how to process what I feel inside probably because I can never distinguish my feelings. For me life has been lived on a very flat line. I guess I learnt to cover up my feelings as an 18 month old when in hospital for 3 months and 100 miles from my family. At that age I wouldn't have been able to understand what my feelings were so they lay there and became a part of me. Now at 75 and because of your poems I am just now starting to look at those things buried deep down and realise that they are not me and not how God sees me either. I trust that by being truthful with myself about these things and praying about them as well as talking to others that I will find at least some freedom in my latter years. Bless you Graham and may you continue to follow your destiny.
I am so proud of you Teresa. You have opened yourself up & looking inside. A hard challenge & one that you are winning. I think you are amazing & a wonderful friend & person. I have said this before & will continue to say it. 🙏💖
Linda, Leah ,Maria and all who have lost their love ,along your journey. I lost my husband to pancreatic cancer. It was devastating and much like a crushing blow to all of of our plans, dreams and hopes for our future.I don’t believe there is a cure for grief. We just learn to dance without that foot! Time helped me understand how the love I had for my husband is still part of me and that is what I need to focus on to share with others, and myself. My faith in God and a wonderful family has helped me. This community is now allowing me to put a voice to the pain and joy that this love has given me! Thank you Graham for allowing us to share and facilitating our thoughts around positive aspects of letting go . I find my walks with prayers and my pup settle my mind so I can “let go “and stop trying to do it all by myself. Letting go is harder than I ever imagined. Now I am finding peace in knowing not everything has to be released. Please allow the love and joy to become the base for your growth and joy! That has helped me immensely !Many prayers for peace in this journey .
So true, there is no cure for grief, we each learn how we deal with it. For me it has been the letting go of trying to do it all by myself, sharing my feelings and emotions with others as I recall the memories we made together, and trusting my faith to carry me. Blessings to you.
I completely agree there is no cure for grief. It can come & go, but we can't let it consume us. Our loved ones want us to move on & live our lives. We never forget, but we can live. 🙏💖
Beautifully said! I, too, lost my husband to pancreatic cancer. Once he was diagnosed he was gone in five months. I felt we didn’t have time to say what we wanted or needed to say.
to each other. Your feelings seemed to mirror mine. Thank you for sharing. Graham, your poem stirred so many emotions within me. So much “food for thought” to ponder. Thank you- it was beautiful!
This is so amazing! Finally talking about moving on from the past is so cathartic. I knew there were others that had similar experiences ,but never voicing my feelings has made letting go harder. After reading and listening to Graham’s reflections and the communication of others does push me into a new light!! I know I am not the only one pushing and praying, through life’s journey. It makes the experience so much more bearable and rewarding to have others to pray for each day. Thank you all for caring enough to post a reply to my little post. It’s so great to think others care enough to read and reply. Thank you for this wonderful reaction and all of the individual experiences you have shared!🙏🏻✌🏻
When I lost my sister to colon cancer 5 years ago I have a spot in my backyard with a post that has a bird feeder two like light that light up and a small fern tree. Every night before bed I look out my window and see where the lights are. I pray that one day I will meet my sister there. It gives me comfort and peace.
Hi Graham! As so often, this poem and video strike home with me. Last month, my Birthday month was filled with personal growth, celebrating 72 years (without a cameo), losing 40 pounds with clean eating and manifesting a stationary bike to expand my self care. Also, the impact of the guest writer moved me into daring to say things that I had been holding in. Finally, able to say without hidden messages or passive aggressiveness. At the Zoom gathering I was bursting with joy with a month well spent. What is my destiny? Cleaning out the cobwebs of hidden messages and fantasies of what could have been, or what could be. I spend the majority of my time alone. Unfortunately, that has given me so much time to manifest any scenario I want. I can make my life whatever I want and then, as you said feel flat when I get there. I am wrestling with truly trusting my inner voice and intuition. What is real and what is wishful thinking or fantasy?? My heart, my intuition always know, how do I trust myself and sink into that. That is the truest act of self trust and faith. I revel in the signs, the sweetest gifts, just for me. The real blessings are there. Yesterday, as I pedaled on the bike, the most beautiful selection of songs that the universe had selected just for me. I didn’t fantasize that, I accept it and loved the joyfilled experience. I am getting there! Thanks for listening to my ramblings. I’m following the compass of my Heart. Much love to you and this community. Cheers!
I join you in this self care quest. It has helped me immensely to be able to be part of this group. Keep up the self discovery and rejoice in what you find.
I’m right there with you Bonnie. Though I find myself trying at times to find alone time. I meditate mostly at night before bed. It helps with the Chaotic Ness of the day. I am to feeling the joys of just letting everything sink in. Im letting God run the show persay because with out him I am nothing. Take care and don’t worry about rambling on I do the same thing.
 what a beautiful poem! I have listened to it several times and re-read it out loud to myself many times in the last two days and I have reflected concerning my own lifeAbout many things I had thought I had forgot. I used to journal when journaling wasn’t popular. I got involved with my church and my prayer partners. I sought professional counseling, I read self-help books, I took walks with a good friend and had many good cries. Four years ago, August 2018, I walked out of my marriage of 18 years. I moved to the other end of the state that I was living in. I had been advised by family and friends that this is what I needed to do to save myself. I moved to a very small community where I didn’t know  anyone and where I would be safe. It was one of the hardest decisions I have made, especially since I had just turned 71, and I was starting over again. I felt like this wasn’t supposed to happen two people my age, but I also wanted to be happy again. I moved with just the bare essentials and a few personal items. I stayed away from all social media and just had the radio for news, music, weather, and noise. I found a very quiet peaceful apartment in a very small community and started on my new journey. I did have to work full-time but that was a savings Grace to help me. I worked with behavior children at school so I was tired when I got home at the end of the day. I got involved with A small local church. I walked a lot, I sat on my Patio and listened to the birds and other sounds of nature. But I also realized I needed to work through the last few years of my life that brought me to the place I was now living. And it was shortly after that I heard about Lynette Elinda and Graham’s audiobook,”Mathemagical.” What a game changer! It took me a long time, but it was the best investment that I have ever purchased for myself! There were many tears but I ended up working through it all And found out that I really love meditation. I work my meditation with my prayer time. And I got rid of all the baggage that I had been carrying around for years. I am very grateful for my family, Friends, and others who have helped me in this journey. And I’m very grateful to Graham for following his heart and opening these platforms up for his followers and encouraging us to be the best that we can be!
Many thanks Graham for passing my message on to Lynette. Her and yours audiobook was a game changer for me, although it took me over a year to go through everything. I was even able to work through things that had happened many years ago and for this I am so very grateful to the two of you for following your hearts!! Just want you both to know, I am the captain of my ship now!, And it feels so good! All of my blessings and all my love, Mary Richards
Hi Karen. You can  contact Lynette here, and ask her where to purchase the Mathemagical audiobook. She is in the process of changing some of the ways to be notified, and this may be the easiest one to reach her. You won’t be disappointed, as I stated in my reply to the poem, it was the best investment I have ever purchased for myself. But please do the homework and the meditations and take your time through at all. I just can’t say enough good things about it, it changed my life.
Support@LynnetteElinda.com. Please keep me informed, and if I can help you in anyway don’t hesitate to ask. Thank you for your reply. And best of luck to you. 🙏🙏 Blessings... 
I tried the link to Lynette Elinda about purchasing “ Mathemagical” . I received a notice that it was not delivered because the address was not accepted.
Can you advise me on my next course of action? Thank you!
I am now finding the time to properly comment. This poem comes at a unique time in my life and it resonates with me. I know I have spoken openly about my abusive childhood that then went into abusive adult relationships. I will go a little more deeply. I grew up in Appalachian Kentucky. I grew up poor and I grew up without Jesus and therefore I grew up in a horrible abusive home; emotionally, sexually and physically. I decided I would not be a product of my upbringing but I didn't exactly prevail....at first. I ended up being a pregnant teen and kept my baby even though family members told me to abort. I carried this child that I thought would give me the love I never had, that's a lot to put on a child. As soon as I graduated highschool I went to college on grants and scholarships. I was determined to get away from the appalachian life of poverty. When my daughter was 18 months old I ended up pregnant again in a horrible relationship. I still graduated in 2006 with my bachelors in Accounting. As soon as I graduated I sought jobs in other states so I could get away TOTALLY. I found a job in Virginia and I fled alone with my babies. I found a church (I was NOT raised in church) due to surfing the radio and hearing a local preacher on air. This was the beginning of my life. This church enveloped me and my kids. In 2011 I met my husband. He was stationed in Virginia because he was in the military there. He is quite a bit older than I am, some may say I fell for him because I have daddy issues but honestly he made me feel safe and still does. He is also very much so in love with Jesus. We had more in common than just our relationship with Christ, he is also from Kentucky. He is from Western KY as I am from Eastern KY. God has a sense of humor. We have been living in Kansas for a little while now after traveling the world. My in-laws are both up in age and unable to care for their 400 acre cattle ranch on their own any longer. We have made the decision that my husband will officially retire and we will move to Western KY to care for the farm and family. I must say that I have anxiety about only being about 3 hours from my past. With the distance I have kept I have been able to "move on". Now I have to face the drama and the state I ran from many years ago. I would appreciate many prayers as we make this big move. I have self medicated against my past with animals and a lot of them that we will be transporting to Kentucky as well.
Wow, what an amazing story. Thank you so much for sharing. You are a brave, strong woman and I believe you will be fine. My prayers are with you. My husband grew up in western Kentucky. ❤️🙏🙏
I hope this doesn't come across as flippant: I strongly feel you are going to be FINE back in KY. You have already met and won so many great battles. I believe the farm, though it is hard work, will be a little heaven for you. We'll carry you in our hearts.
My prayers are with you Lynette. You can do this. You have been opening up & dealing with your traumatic past. You are taking more steps to heal as you go through life. None of this is easy, but you are doing it. Be proud of what you have accomplished. Believe in yourself. If you need help, ask for it. Seek it out. Moving so close is bringing back some of your fears, but I believe in you.
(Again, seek help if moving becomes too much for you.)
Another beautiful poem Graham, thank you. Forgiveness is the key to shedding the ropes of your past. If you don’t forgive you can never move forward. Your thoughts will always be controlled by your past. Learn to let go. Keep life simple. The things that really matter are always right in front of you. Be kind and love with all your heart! Take care my friends 🙏💕
The video is amazing introduction to another inspiring poem. As I reflect on my life’s journey and how I dealt with the “ropes or bumps” along the way, it was my faith that got me through those times..it wasn’t always easy. It was a process of learning to let go of the things I couldn’t control, trusting the God would take care of them and to focus on the present, keeping my heart and mind open to the “ road signs” along the way. Just these past couple of months I took the steps to untie one of those ropes, as a result new blessings came into my life. Am currently facing another bump, the family trip we had planned had to be put on hold due to a sciatic nerve issues I am having which makes getting around very difficult. It has been a challenge for me both emotionally and physically, I know by letting go of that which I can’t control, my faith will show me the path during this trial.
Quote from Little Book of Love Letters to the World
“You may not always end up where you thought you were going
but you will always end up where you were meant to be.”
I love that quote and the others you continually share with our chat group on Telegram. You have such an amazing positive outlook on things. Continued prayers for healing. 🙏🙏❤️
Linda I’ve had the same condition and have undergone several epidural procedures. The last one across my whole back at S1 seems to have made a difference. Perhaps you should consider that if you have not already. Wishing you well. 🙏🏻💜
I like the quote you shared. I know the sciatic nerve pain how much it changes what you can do but I want you to know I started injections in the SI joints and have found great relief and was able to finally drive a 2 day trip from VT to Indiana. I of course am not a doctor but thought I'd share
I can relate in some way to your current bump as I've had one of my own. It's hard not to fall, but to focus on the recovery & a good future ahead. But with that focus, you can move forward & stop from being bound by those annoying ropes that try to stall you from life. 🙏💖
Linda again I am so sorry that you had to put your trip on hold. I know that you were so looking forward. So, they say when one door closes another opens. Things happen for a reason!!!! Something even more beautiful is coming your way!!!!
Oh Kathleen this is what I needed to hear this morning as I had a pretty rough night. Your kind words have been helping me remember to trust the path God has planned for me. Blessings to you!
Very cool intro, Graham. I kept waiting and waiting and then…there he is! Lol Regarding “untying” the old ropes, I’m not sure we can or even should try to do this because I believe that to a large extent we are the product of our past…good, bad, ugly, indifferent. It’s here to stay. I am reminded of the philosophy that past, present and future coexist. What I struggle with is how the things of the past can negatively affect my present. How to deal? Well, I pray a lot and that really helps. And rather than trying to “escape,” I embrace the past and see it as something I can build on. I could go on, but I’ll leave it at that. Very thought provoking poem!! Ciao.
It is so interesting that you and I have expressed the same emotion pertaining to the past. Those ropes. We both embrace the lessons of the past. I do not shun them or reject them. They are the reason I am who I am today. 🙏🏻💜
I’ve shared that just over a year ago I moved away from a job I’d been doing for 19 years. It was such a mixture of trepidation and relief at the same time. When I started writing again after having not for a very long time, I was able to release the fear and embrace the freedom that my decision had brought and there was a lot of joy in that. Recently, though, I’ve discovered that I have not totally let go of the reasons I came to the decision I did to quit my job. There are definitely still some unresolved feelings about that time. I realized I had stuffed those feelings. Now I’m trying to one by one work through them. Writing always helps me process so I’ve been doing that – letting the feelings flow out onto the paper. But I find that sometimes they still want to surface and I have that tendency to shove them back down instead of taking the time and space to release them. So I’ve made a list of what those feelings are and where they come from so that in my morning quiet time I can meditate and pray through them one at a time. Sometimes I have to revisit something on the list, but I’m progressing and allowing myself to embrace the future without the burden of that part of my past. One day at a time! Thanks, Graham, for another great poem to ponder – beautiful morning setting!
Cathey - Amen to that. Those toxic negative feelings still surface for me also from time to time. Like you, that morning quiet time through prayer, I try to work thru them when it occurs. If not, I will ask a friend to pray for me on my behalf so I do not go back down the same rabbit hole. I too am journaling a lot more often than I used to, and it does tremendously help. We're all a work in progress.
We sure are works in progress but I feel like together, we're all gaining tools to help each other along the way! 💕
Good on you Anne. I too have reached out to friends & the support is amazing. I'm so glad you are finding ways to deal with those negative feelings as they rise up. I wish you all the very best. 💖🙏
Christine - I totally agree. We need to let ourselves be vulnerable as that is how we all grow. I'm so glad you're doing this also. Take care and blessings to you!
You are one of my deep friends Cathey. I’m glad God led me to you. You are a blessing.
And you are dear to me, too! I love our conversations and I know I can always ask you to pray for me and you will! 💕
Always ask. My closest friend is Jesus.
Couldn't agree with you more Lucinda. 🙏
Cathey I just want to tell you how impressed I am with the organized approach you have taken to fear based feelings. I believe those are the most difficult ones to resolve because most often they are self-manufactured. Once light finally shines upon them, their power is lost. Bravo friend! 🙏🏻💜
Thank you, Sherry! I really appreciate this. Organized is my m.o. but I have to say that it's not always as pretty as it sounds. Certain things have been a huge struggle and has involved a lot of revisiting the steps I know I need to take. It's a day by day by day thing. Thanks for your encouragement!
Always! The old expression two steps forward and one back ~ I am infinitely familiar with that one! Hugs to you.
I look up to you Ms. Cathey🙏❤️
You’re pretty special Mrs. Lucy.
Thank you everyone I meet thru this community are all amazing humans I am so grateful 🙏
Agree💖
We have a wonderful friendship and mutual admiration, Lucy. You inspire me every day. 💕
You are very brave to take the steps you have taken. Thank you for sharing your journey. Prayers for continued success. I also have trouble letting go completely of some things from my past. I have found that for me forgiveness is necessary for the hurts that pop up. Sometimes that forgiveness does not come so easily for me but I continue to work on it.
That's a huge piece of the puzzle, Leigh, and forgiveness is something I am continuing to work on. That may be the toughest one of all. Sometimes I feel brave and sometimes not so much. Thanks for your support and encouragement.
oh Cathey, first of all, you are such an honest, lovable and brave person. any idea how hard it was for you to quit your job and figure out how to move on. The courage to write, and publish it is already a lot.
We always come back to our lists, it's healthy and natural.
I appreciate having met you, being able to read you has taught me and accompanied me in this last year.
And as always, keep growing ❤
What a lovely and supportive comment, Silvina. You've been with me on this journey for many months now. I feel completely blessed by you and so many others who have encouraged me to keep following my heart. Much love to you! 💕
You are a great friend!!! I love what you wrote!! It touched my heart! God bless you Cathy!!!❤😇🙏
Thank you, Carolyn! ❤
Cathey, I get stuck on some past issues and although I've resolved and released many I somehow still have a couple of nagging ones. Maybe they stay as a reminder of what I don't want again? Who knows. But I'm a much " lighter" version of myself these days...and I know you are too!
I know exactly what your saying and feeling
Thank you, Barbara! I try hard not to live in the past, but of course, all of our pasts affect us and are part of who we are. It's when we let the past stop us from moving forward that we need to work through how we feel about those events. We're all just works in progress, I think, but hopefully continuing to move ahead!
Very well said Cathey. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you Cathy for the courage and inspiration!🙏
Thank you, Connie. Sometimes courage comes when you are forced to be brave or choose to let the past hold you back. I am happy to share my journey - hope it helps someone else in some small way.
You should be proud of all that you have done and are doing. I am proud of you & how you share your beautiful poems and thoughts. We all struggle with things that come back to us & I'm so glad that you have found a way to deal with this. You are a true inspiration. 💖
I can't take credit for doing what I do. Yes, I put in the work and try to stay open to going the direction I'm pointed to, but I am very human and flawed and still have to overcome my own overthinking and doubts. I guess we all do, right? I so appreciate your constant encouragement, especially on the days I'm not feeling so proud of myself. 💕
You should take credit for what you do. You deserve it. 💖
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Sounds very close to my story Cathey. Thank you.
And you're a beach lover, so I automatically feel we're kindred spirits. 💕
I feel like that way too. I'm in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
Your home is on my bucket list. I've seen a lot of Pacific Ocean but not a lot of the Atlantic. Hopefully one of these days!
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Prayers, thoughts and Good Luck.
Thank you, Brenda!
Jody, that sounds like a really good process to help you make this big decision. Hope it helps you to know the next steps!
Thanks Graham for sharing another powerful and thought provoking poem that made me think and reflect.For me when I’m feeling heavy and weighted down, what helps me to release and let go is something simple like a walk at the beach and watching the sunset. It always helps and makes me feel better. It’s the simple things in life that matter. I also have been journaling a lot, I write everything down,that also helps a lot. Also listening to music works for me as well . 🙏💖
Your comment reminds me of the poem Footprints. When we walk on the beach we see only one set of footprints because God is carrying you. I know He has you.
Thank you Lucinda, I also feel that he has .🙏❤️
Irene, I keep reminding myself daily that the simple things in life are what matter the most.
My health, family, friends, fresh air and naturally grown healthy food. This amazing group of friends, which is a simple thing for us thanks to Graham, has made such an impact on so many of us. Let’s all keep remembering what the important things are- the simple things🥰
I totally agree Vicky. It has taken me a long time to really appreciate this fact. We need to realize what is truly important in our lives and those things are the simple ones.
So true Vicki , that’s all we need in life . 🙏💖
Irene - Amen to all the above. I don't have the beach setting, but I'm so fortunate to have some of those nature trails or parks to walk through that are very close by. That walk on the beach and on the sand was totally awesome and very peaceful!
Thanks Anne 🙏💖
As I have gotten older I find that I seek out more of those quiet times where I can reflect and just listen to my heart. And being outside whenever possible just makes it so much better.
Love how the ocean and the feel of the sand is so therapeutic! What a blessing you can access it daily!!
It is very therapeutic Tricia :)
I love seeing your photos, Irene, of your sunset walks. They always bring a little joy to my day. Thank you. 🙏💖
Thanks Christine , I wish you could join me and Teresa as we are going on a sunset cruise on the 3rd of July when she comes to Darwin. I can't wait ! I promise we will take lots of photos to show you !!
I look forward to seeing them. Wish I could be there with you. 🙏💖
Contact with nature is the best.
Graham - another beautiful poem. I was actually reflecting on this the other day. For me, it started with forgiveness. Forgiving myself for holding on to things that I self-imposed on myself. I have to admit that was NOT easy to do. This was done through daily prayer/meditation and reading a daily devotion that is Biblically based. I could not move forward to where I am now in life if I did not put to rest those regrets and resentments of the past. It was the first step I took to love and appreciate myself. I still have the daily prayer/meditation or quiet time as I call it with God each and every morning. If I don't start my day off with that, I will not be whom God wants me to be. I serve God as well as taking care of myself now. That morning prayer/daily devotional time that I spend with God each morning is the guiding light that takes me through each and every day. This physical and wellness journey that is my current destiny has opened me up and out of my comfort zone in so many amazing ways. I continue to walk almost daily. Some of those walks are prayer walks and on some, I just listen to praise and worship music.
By sharing this journey with others, I'm hoping God will use this to encourage or bless just one person. If that happens, that makes me so happy, humbled, and blessed. It will all be worth it. It also holds me accountable. For those of you who don't know, I will start sharing this journey called "One Day at a Time" on substack very soon. God revealed the title of the blog/newsletter to me over the weekend while I was at the beach. If you wish to subscribe, go to annewooten.substack.com. I am not a writer, but I plan on sharing this journey publicly from the heart and feel the call from God to do so.
Graham, thank you for another beautifully written and inspirational poem. Take care and Cheers!
This is a new beginning for you! You will be able to help others with your journey. I am glad you decided to write on Substack. You always know what to say and how to make a person feel at peace. And not to mention your musical abilities. Add some music to your Substack entries!!!! Keep up the good work!
Thanks Laura! I will definitely add the music as God leads me. As you know music is a passion of mine.
I am going to subscribe. So how do you set up a blog/newsletter like you did? I feel like I have a lot to help others with and would love to do something like this. My email is lkdennis777@gmail.com if you don't mind sharing. I am SO over social media and would love a new outlet.
Hi Lynette - I just emailed you and shared with you how I set mine up. I'm learning as I go. Email me if you have any other questions. Take care my friend, and I look forward to subscribing to yours also! God bless!
Go to your dashboard to set up anewsletter and/or a podcast
I subscribed, Anne, and I'm excited to share your journey. Thank you for putting yourself out there so we can all learn from you!
Thanks Cathey! This is very new for me, but I need to let that vulnerable side of me out and share the highs and lows of this journey. We all truly learn from one another! Take care my friend and God bless you!
You will pick it all up in no time. There's a bit of a learning curve, but you can make it simple and then go from there. Excited to see the first one!
I’ve subscribed as well can’t wait to here the journey you are on.
It takes a lot to do what you're doing & to share. I know this. It has taken more than half my life before I started to reveal about the trauma of my upbringing. It has taken even more, to admit to other trauma s of my past.
I wish you all the best with your substack & your journey forward. 💖🙏
Thanks Christine! It takes courage, but more than that, I feel God is leading me to do this to encourage others. That's what is all about for me. Most of my past was self-imposed, but I can only look forward and take this one day at a time. Wish you all the best! Blessings and Cheers!
I have subscribed Anne, I can’t wait to read about your journey!
Thanks Irene! It's coming. Gathering all the thoughts right now and praying for God to lead me in the right format. I'll post something soon! Take care my friend! Cheers!
I subscribed
, looking forward to reading your journey
Thanks Bev! It's very new to me, but I'm happy to share it as I think it's part of the process for me. Blessings and Cheers!
I love this new journey that you are starting Anne! Your comments about that it starts with forgiveness, that is certainly true. That this the ultimate self-love. Thank you for bringing that point up.
Thanks Tricia!
Thank you so much for being willing to share your journey with us. I’ve already subscribed and can’t wait to read your stories. Prayers for success as you continue to step out of your comfort zone.🙏🙏
Thanks Leigh! I appreciate it!
I look forward to reading your newsletter, Anne!
Thanks Joan. It will be soon after compiling my thoughts.
I am already subscribed, I am looking forward for your messages. 🌼
Thanks Elizabeth! Gathering my thoughts on where and how to get started. Blessings!
vous êtes incroyable Anne, je vais m'abonner à votre page. Je suis très contente de vous connaitre
Blessings to you Myriam! Thank you!
I am going to subscribe .You are so good with words Anne,really enjoy reading your comments.Take care
Thank you Lynn! Take care! Cheers!
I subscribed Anne looking forward to your journey! Blessings
Thanks Dorothy! Blessings and Cheers to you!
I subscribed Anne, looking forward to following your journey. You definitely have inspired me with walking. It definitely helps me physically and mentally. I have mentioned that to you before. Have a great day!
Thanks Maria! I'm agree with you 100%. It does me too! It clears the cobwebs and motivates me to keep going. I'm right there with you! Take care and blessings to you!
I will subscribe Anne 😊
Thanks Leah! Take care and Cheers!
Thank you!
Thanks Jody! You’re so kind and I am truly humbled right now. Blessings to you and Cheers!
Thank you,Graham, for this thought provoking poem. They are always so deep, rewarding and inspirational.
I was tied up for years in the ropes of shame because I got pregnant out of wedlock when I was 17. I was sent off to a home for unwed mothers to stay until I delivered the baby, who would then be put up for adoption. That was the plan anyway.
When I gave birth to this precious baby boy, I saw his face and fell in love. I convinced my parents to let me keep him. They fell in love with him too. They wanted to assume the role of parents to him. I would not allow that. He came home with me/us.
I had no idea what I was in for at 17. I was way too immature and dependent to be a mother. So after 5 months of mothering him I decided the best thing for him would be to have 2 loving parents and siblings. So I did give him up for adoption when he was 5 months old. It hurt, but I knew that was what was best for him.
I lived in the tangled up ropes of shame for many years until he located me when he was 37.
I never shared about him to colleagues or new friends.
I came to Christ and was a new creation. My mind took a long time to grasp that. After he found me, I didn’t care who knew about it or what they thought. I was free of the guilt and shame.
We now have a great relationship and our son has an older step brother. I have four grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren with one more on the way. The Lord has made something beautiful of my life!
The ropes were loosened when I decided to not let mistakes of the past define or control my future. I live for the beauty of each new day and person I meet. If I can help anyone along the way, that makes me grateful and happy.
Thanks for your wonderful poems Graham.
What a powerful, sweet story of how our past mistakes can be redeemed. I'm so glad that you and your son reunited and that he has an active role in your life. It's so hard for some to understand how freeing it can be to have our sins and mistakes forgiven by Jesus and the new lease on life that He gives us. Thanks for sharing such a personal story
Thank you Jody for your kind words. Bless you!
What an emotional yet uplifting story, a perfect example of letting go of the past and moving forward into the beautiful future God had planned for you. I am so glad you reunited with your son and now have a relationship with him. Continued blessings.
Thank you Leigh. Life is good. Blessings to you.
Debbie this is a heartfelt testimony of a time in your life. A time where you had to make a tough decision at such a young age. I am so glad for both of you that the reunion was so beautiful and rewarding. thank you for sharing with us such a personal matter. I hope you find years of happiness and continue to loosen the ropes of the past
Thank you Bonnie for your kind words and thoughts.
Debbie - what a story and testimony my friend! I am so glad you and your son reunited and are now in each other's lives. This is truly amazing and I am so glad you shared. I can tell God has truly blessed you! May he continue to do so!
Thank you Anne!
Your last paragraph says what all of us should remember- to not let mistakes of the past define or control the future- a powerful statement!!! So happy for you being able to connect with your son and build a relationship with a new beginning and a beautiful future😍
Thank you for your kind words Vicky.
Wow Debbie…it is so awesome that you have relationship with your son. Bless you.🙏
It is! I love his wife too!
What an amazing journey God has put you on. Thank you for sharing!
If it helps even one person by sharing it I’m blessed to be used in that way. Thanks Tricia.
What an emotional story. I'm so glad that you were able to stop feeling ashamed & have been able to reconnect with your son & now have a wonderful relationship. 🙏💖
Susan thank you for sharing you beautiful story. I’m so happy for you and your son that you were able to reunite. God sure has blessed you both. Now your able to help those in the same way God bless you and your son.
That is amazing. Thank you for sharing.
You did a great and right decision .It was the Lord who made the right track for you to go on your journey .Your path is now clear and the fig in your life were all cleared. It pays to know and have a close relationship with the Lord.
Debbie, your story is beautiful. Start to finish. There is no shame whatsoever, only a heart full of love for your child. You gave him a gift you considered to be more important than yourself. I admire you. It just have take. So much strength to make that decision. That makes you a very special and generous person. 🙏🏻💜
Thank you Sherry. That’s how I looked at it too. God has a way of weaving a beautiful tapestry of love in our lives. Sometimes we only see the back, but He sees the finished Masterpiece. Bless you!
Thank you Debbie, so sincerely.
Debbie what a beautiful story. I applaud you for making the hardest decision ever, and realizing that the child would be better off with two loving parents. It was the right decision for you at that point in your life. How wonderful that he reached out to you and you have built a wonderful life. So happy for you!!!
Thank you Kathleen. He now knows and agrees I did the right thing. When he heard how much we loved him and wanted him I believe that softened his heart.
Thank you Lori. He never fails us.
Thank you! The beauty of first meeting him was so precious because when I opened my door to meet him and his wife, he handed me my 5 month old granddaughter.
Susan. I think I know how you feel. I was blessed that my son found me. I cried the day he called me “Mom” and introduced me to his significant people as his mom. Things were so different back then. Now so many people choose to have children without marriage. I agree with you that God will take care of her and I pray that you one day have the joy of being reunited. Bless you!
So happy for you Debbie
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I would like that too. What part of the country do you live in? I’m in So Cal.
We couldn’t be further apart in the US. We’ll have to settle for being Cyber Friends. 😊
You never know what the future may bring. Keep the faith🙏
So sorry Susan that you haven't been able to find your daughter. I can't even imagine how hard that would be. As you said, your faith in God & belief is that she has had a good life & continues to do so. Blessings to you both. 🙏
Wow this is very in depth Graham to process for myself since my beautification journey. I am working very slowly to process my fear and move forward to my destiny. Today I realized and feel worthy allowing my mind to refreshed and see myself through God’s eyes. Some ideas thoughts and dreams that need to bring this world, someday’s many days and times I thought not worthy or cherished. Somedays I thought I am worthy and cherished many times we allow our broken or worldly pieces to define us. The temper we lost , laundry filed up, the way we responded to a friend, the things we wish we did and should of said, the to do list that’s not finished yet or extra pounds peering us on the scale. These things are NOT a definition of your worth or a destination of your destiny. God knows your struggles or my struggles and wants to be your comforter , your healer, your captain navigating these seas of life , he has a plan uprising, rest victories. He hears our cries , catches tears and celebrate triumphs. Reach out to him in faith today and allow him to lead according to his plan. You are Valuable! You are Worthy!
“ But seek ye first kingdom of God; and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” ( Matthew 6:33 ) KJV
Well said Lucy 🙏❤️
Thank you my friend 🙏❤️
Lucy - absolutely beautifully stated and AMEN! God bless you my friend!
Thank you Anne being vulnerable to share my fast medical and I am braving to share thru here our community of amazing humans that lift each other’s up.My therapist said baby steps 🙏❤️
I love this Lucy! That is one of my favorite scriptures. 💕😜
Mine too I have a journal just all of my favorite verse and everyday I read or write is Jeremiah 29:11 .
You have such a beautiful soul Lucy😇🙏. A true inspiration 🙏
Yes well said LucyI just loved the Bible verse seek ye the kingdom of God. I just read this the other day. Thank you for the reminder
🙏for continued success!
I can't say I've untied any ropes from my past yet, I lost my soul mate 16 months ago to Covid and I'm still trying to navigate life without him. Graham your poems have been a blessing for me and being a part of this Substack community and also cameo has also been a blessing. I feel that I have gained knowledge from those who have been through trials and I thank you all for sharing your experience's. Another great poem Graham 😊❤️
I lost my husband to Parkinson’s Disease 18 months ago. As a believer, I know where his soul is but it does not make it easier to travel this road alone. My heart felt condolences to everyone experiencing this pain. I am thankful the Lord led me to Graham and his poems. He is a blessing.
Trudy I am so sorry for your loss. I couldn’t imagine losing my spouse. I do know what it’s like to lose a family member. My sister passed 5yrs ago this last March to colon cancer. God never takes those he knows he’s not done with. He must need us still here for a reason. God never does things to hurt us he wants us to look to him when we are weary. When you need your husband ask and he will be there when you need to talk he will listen. God made him an Angel just for you like he did for me. One more thing you are not alone we are here with you to give support and a listening ear when you need it as well. God bless you Trudy stay strong you’ll get thru this I know you will.
Beautiful words Shari. Your sister is your own special guardian angel😇🙏. I'm sorry you lost her. Blessings to you & your family. 😇🙏💖
I’m so sorry for your lose as well. To lose so many loved ones in a short time is unbearable. I will be praying for you and that God continues to bless you in so many ways. Take care my dear friend.
Thank you so much Shari. Bless you. 🙏💖
It's comforting to me to know that I will see him again and you're right Trudy it does not make it easier because I would rather have him here 
I know Parkinson's is a cruel disease. I hope you get some comfort from the care you took of him through those debilitating times. I so hope you can know you are not alone.
I took care of him for 16 years. Just miss him so much.
I can't begin to know how profound your missing is. I do know that the love you shared with him and the devotion you showed him in your caring will NEVER die. He will always be with you. Perhaps, in a comfortable place, you can talk to him or write him a letter. Whatever is still present in your physical life that is a source of joy - a relative, a friend, I pray for you to find some comfort.
When you see the sun he’s smiling down on you. When it rains he knows how much you loved him and he misses you as well.
So sorry for your loss Trudy🙏. Losing a loved one isn't easy, no matter what you believe. They aren't there anymore & it's hard not to miss them dearly.
I have mentioned the loss of my dad (2019), uncle(2019), aunt (2021) & mum (2021), on this site before. I know they are all together, but at times it's hard.
Blessing to you & your family🙏💖
So sorry for your loss
Leah, I lost my husband to ALS 2 1/2 months ago and I am trying to do the same with my life without him. In the process of selling my house but I pray to god everyday to get me through tough days. Graham and this wonderful community definitely has been helping me as well. You are in my prayers 🙏🏻
I've only known one person, a friend, who died of ALS. My heart goes out to you. I know you are a person of strength to have seen him through such a horrible disease. You did your best for him, I know, so there is no question you have God given inner strength. We are here for you. There are others in your life who can comfort you. Please don't hold back. Talk about him. Talk about the pain and frustration. You can even be mad at God. He will understand. I hope memories of the good times with your husband can eventually ease your heart. Blessings to you,
Thank you Patty for your kind words. It definitely was a horrible disease. It was hard to see him decline. His mind was strong but his body was giving up which was hard for him. I do question god but then I do ask for strength and for him to help me through tough times. He is not suffering anymore which gives me peace. I do miss him so much but I do know he is with me in spirit. Thanks again I am so thankful I found Graham through Heartland and now it is so nice to be apart of this caring community it definitely gives inspiration and comfort. 💗
I lost my husband to ALS as well. It will be 6 years 6/27. We were married 46 years. Its tough. I send many hugs and prayers to you.
Donna, how kind of you to send Maria hugs. There is no consolation stronger than one from someone who has same cirucmstances. The friend I lost to ALS many years ago was a college classmate. She was in a nursing home when her daughter's wedding day came. She insisted all the other family members attend the wedding. One way I have found to "loosen ropes" is to remember in a non bragging way something I was able to do that I know was a good thing. Email had just caught on. With help from other friends, I was able to create a schedule for one of us to be with our ALS patient friend that entire weekend. (Her daughter and new husband did come to the nursing home immediately after the ceremony.)
I'm sorry for your loss Maria it's definitely the hardest thing I've ever done. I pray daily also and I know that God does not give us anything we can't handle. I'll be praying for you as well
Leah my prayers go out to for being so strong. I have a friend she to lost her husband to ALS last year. That illness wasn’t fair to you or him. You were so strong in taking care of him as long as you did. He is so thankful for you. He is now in Gods care and living his best life with God. Knowing that should bring you comfort. I will be praying for you and that you will find comfort in all of Gods glory. Also we are here for you to lend a listening ear when needed.
Leah, my condolences to you on your loss. I know what you are experiencing as I lost my husband several years ago. What I can share with you is to give yourself time, take things one step at a time, allow your emotions to flow through you, and trust your faith. When I was trying to navigate the new path, I thought I had to have everything I order, be strong ,not let my heart feel the pain or show emotions, once I let go of those preconceived “ ideas” of what I supposed to do, and trusted my faith to guide me the path was easier to navigate. Blessings to you.
Thank you Linda One step at a time is for sure, my family is very supportive but it's nice to have others who have gone through a similar experience. The hardest thing for me right now is watching how hard it's been for my three daughters and grandkids they miss him too
That was also hard for me and it still is at times, that’s when we start sharing stories and memories.
Navigating life without the person which you thought you would grow old together with is hard, but we wake up each morning, put one front in front of the other and proceed through life the best we can. My husband passed away too early at the age of 50. My comfort comes when I start my car and our favorite song comes on the radio, or as a cardinal flies to a branch on a tree in front of the kitchen window as I wash dishes, as a cool breeze goes by my face on a hot day, and as a penny from Heaven appears when 2 seconds earlier there was not one. Each of these examples are easy to explain, but I would rather believe it is my angel in Heaven saying hello. Be aware for signs from Heaven😇
So sorry for your loss Leah and to everyone in this community. Thanks once again for your poem Graham and continued inspiration.
Blessings to you Leah.
That's a hard road to navigate, Leah. I hope day by day you find a little more peace and comfort.
 thank you Kathy I have a good days and I have not so good days the 25th of this month would've been our 34th wedding anniversary so that's gonna be a rough day they say the first's are the worst but I'm not finding the seconds are any better. I have three girls that all live near me so they make those days better by spending time with me
What I know of grief is that it's different for everyone and it's sneaky! Pops up even at unexpected times. I'm glad you have your daughters close to help you on the rough days.
You are right Cathey I can be driving and hear a song on the radio and start crying.
Music can definitely bring up feelings and memories. I remember crying once over a television commercial. But I think that release is ok, too. Time definitely helps, but for now, let yourself feel and respond however you need to. 💕
I’m so sorry for your loss. 🥰
I'm so sorry for your loss Leah. It's a difficult time to lose a loved one. Covid has taken so much & I pray that you can continue to find the strength to move forward. Not easy. I'm also glad you have met people through this community that have been there for you & that you are able to share with them what you are going through. Knowing that you are supported is a blessing indeed. 🙏💖
Leah we all wrap our arms around you. That is what this wonderful community does. 🙏🏻💜
Not quite sure those ropes of the past can ever be totally untied, Graham. We have that past no matter what. We just need to release the urge to crawl back on those ropes. We are who we are because of what happened back there...like it or not. I've gnawed at some of those ropes for years. Many of them are so thin now I would be unable to crawl back on them. So I don't. The rope that led to the heartbreak of a marriage that didn't last is nearly gone. But not cut completely. How could it be? There are children and grandchildren filling my days with love and joy in the present. Where did they come from? The other end of that marriage rope! So yes, we can cut through much of it but we never should cut through all of it. We'd be in a completely different Present then...wouldn't we? And we need to embrace our present to the point where the temptation to turn our head and reach out for one of those ropes doesn't pull us in.
Now by choice I'll visit one of those sweet memories made in the past. Just a short visit though.
Yeah...there are painful memories there too. And I've glanced back now and then at those....and I'd like to untie one of those ropes in particular. But that one, I'm unable to. I don't visit that one very often and if I do, I don't beat myself up about it like I used to. It isn't fully resolved but it is more understood now. I've made a peace with it and I'm content. That peace has allowed me to feel more confident in myself and my decisions. My now is a sweet, comfortable place. And I know my future will be taken care of because I'm taking care of myself right here in the present.
"You did then what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better." - Maya Angelou
Barbara...so good to hear your strength...Thank you I enjoy Maya Angelo...such a gift to the world.🙏
Since my sons have their own home we have been cleaning out their bedrooms they grew up in. Pictures with past girlfriends, notes passed to each other, sports memorabilia, and life time keepsakes are found. They want to throw these keepsakes that meant something to them away. I keep reminding them what you wrote at the beginning- we are what we are because of what happened back then. Your past is what makes you who you are today. We need to work through our knotted ropes but without focusing and staying stagnant. Sometimes the time has come to move on.
I really like the quote you shared.. thank you
Amen Barbara! Thank you for sharing! God bless you!
I love the analogy. I have loosened some of my ropes, but have not really been able to untie them completely.
All the best with untying some more. 🙏💖
Untieding ropes is to forgive
I can't change what happened
I can't change what I've done
or what was done to me
Sometimes I still mourn about things
but forgiveness is the key to opening up
for a new destination
Long walks between fields, in forests or mountains
Hear birds singing
Admire wild flowers
They just celebrate life
I too can choose to celebrate life
To make this choice I have to change my behavior
For that I have to change my feelings
And I can't do this until I change my thoughts
Untieding ropes is to forgive
Step by step...
Thank you Graham for this beautiful poem. I love the way you make me reflect on life.🙏🙃
Much love to everyone in this community✨
Well said. Forgiveness is something I know I struggle with every day and that is what keeps me tied to things of the past. But I am working on it.
So am I. It is not easy, but for me it is the only way to enjoy life💕
Wow Graham you sure do know how to make a person stop and think about their life. I can honestly say that I have never learnt how to process what I feel inside probably because I can never distinguish my feelings. For me life has been lived on a very flat line. I guess I learnt to cover up my feelings as an 18 month old when in hospital for 3 months and 100 miles from my family. At that age I wouldn't have been able to understand what my feelings were so they lay there and became a part of me. Now at 75 and because of your poems I am just now starting to look at those things buried deep down and realise that they are not me and not how God sees me either. I trust that by being truthful with myself about these things and praying about them as well as talking to others that I will find at least some freedom in my latter years. Bless you Graham and may you continue to follow your destiny.
I am so proud of you Teresa. You have opened yourself up & looking inside. A hard challenge & one that you are winning. I think you are amazing & a wonderful friend & person. I have said this before & will continue to say it. 🙏💖
Thank you Christine.
Linda, Leah ,Maria and all who have lost their love ,along your journey. I lost my husband to pancreatic cancer. It was devastating and much like a crushing blow to all of of our plans, dreams and hopes for our future.I don’t believe there is a cure for grief. We just learn to dance without that foot! Time helped me understand how the love I had for my husband is still part of me and that is what I need to focus on to share with others, and myself. My faith in God and a wonderful family has helped me. This community is now allowing me to put a voice to the pain and joy that this love has given me! Thank you Graham for allowing us to share and facilitating our thoughts around positive aspects of letting go . I find my walks with prayers and my pup settle my mind so I can “let go “and stop trying to do it all by myself. Letting go is harder than I ever imagined. Now I am finding peace in knowing not everything has to be released. Please allow the love and joy to become the base for your growth and joy! That has helped me immensely !Many prayers for peace in this journey .
So true, there is no cure for grief, we each learn how we deal with it. For me it has been the letting go of trying to do it all by myself, sharing my feelings and emotions with others as I recall the memories we made together, and trusting my faith to carry me. Blessings to you.
Praying you get your balance from the love you shared🙏🏻!
I completely agree there is no cure for grief. It can come & go, but we can't let it consume us. Our loved ones want us to move on & live our lives. We never forget, but we can live. 🙏💖
Amen to what you shared! Sharing what you're feeling with others is part of the healing process! Blessings and Cheers!
Beautifully said! I, too, lost my husband to pancreatic cancer. Once he was diagnosed he was gone in five months. I felt we didn’t have time to say what we wanted or needed to say.
to each other. Your feelings seemed to mirror mine. Thank you for sharing. Graham, your poem stirred so many emotions within me. So much “food for thought” to ponder. Thank you- it was beautiful!
This is so amazing! Finally talking about moving on from the past is so cathartic. I knew there were others that had similar experiences ,but never voicing my feelings has made letting go harder. After reading and listening to Graham’s reflections and the communication of others does push me into a new light!! I know I am not the only one pushing and praying, through life’s journey. It makes the experience so much more bearable and rewarding to have others to pray for each day. Thank you all for caring enough to post a reply to my little post. It’s so great to think others care enough to read and reply. Thank you for this wonderful reaction and all of the individual experiences you have shared!🙏🏻✌🏻
When I lost my sister to colon cancer 5 years ago I have a spot in my backyard with a post that has a bird feeder two like light that light up and a small fern tree. Every night before bed I look out my window and see where the lights are. I pray that one day I will meet my sister there. It gives me comfort and peace.
Hi Graham! As so often, this poem and video strike home with me. Last month, my Birthday month was filled with personal growth, celebrating 72 years (without a cameo), losing 40 pounds with clean eating and manifesting a stationary bike to expand my self care. Also, the impact of the guest writer moved me into daring to say things that I had been holding in. Finally, able to say without hidden messages or passive aggressiveness. At the Zoom gathering I was bursting with joy with a month well spent. What is my destiny? Cleaning out the cobwebs of hidden messages and fantasies of what could have been, or what could be. I spend the majority of my time alone. Unfortunately, that has given me so much time to manifest any scenario I want. I can make my life whatever I want and then, as you said feel flat when I get there. I am wrestling with truly trusting my inner voice and intuition. What is real and what is wishful thinking or fantasy?? My heart, my intuition always know, how do I trust myself and sink into that. That is the truest act of self trust and faith. I revel in the signs, the sweetest gifts, just for me. The real blessings are there. Yesterday, as I pedaled on the bike, the most beautiful selection of songs that the universe had selected just for me. I didn’t fantasize that, I accept it and loved the joyfilled experience. I am getting there! Thanks for listening to my ramblings. I’m following the compass of my Heart. Much love to you and this community. Cheers!
I join you in this self care quest. It has helped me immensely to be able to be part of this group. Keep up the self discovery and rejoice in what you find.
Thank you Bonnie!
I’m right there with you Bonnie. Though I find myself trying at times to find alone time. I meditate mostly at night before bed. It helps with the Chaotic Ness of the day. I am to feeling the joys of just letting everything sink in. Im letting God run the show persay because with out him I am nothing. Take care and don’t worry about rambling on I do the same thing.
 what a beautiful poem! I have listened to it several times and re-read it out loud to myself many times in the last two days and I have reflected concerning my own lifeAbout many things I had thought I had forgot. I used to journal when journaling wasn’t popular. I got involved with my church and my prayer partners. I sought professional counseling, I read self-help books, I took walks with a good friend and had many good cries. Four years ago, August 2018, I walked out of my marriage of 18 years. I moved to the other end of the state that I was living in. I had been advised by family and friends that this is what I needed to do to save myself. I moved to a very small community where I didn’t know  anyone and where I would be safe. It was one of the hardest decisions I have made, especially since I had just turned 71, and I was starting over again. I felt like this wasn’t supposed to happen two people my age, but I also wanted to be happy again. I moved with just the bare essentials and a few personal items. I stayed away from all social media and just had the radio for news, music, weather, and noise. I found a very quiet peaceful apartment in a very small community and started on my new journey. I did have to work full-time but that was a savings Grace to help me. I worked with behavior children at school so I was tired when I got home at the end of the day. I got involved with A small local church. I walked a lot, I sat on my Patio and listened to the birds and other sounds of nature. But I also realized I needed to work through the last few years of my life that brought me to the place I was now living. And it was shortly after that I heard about Lynette Elinda and Graham’s audiobook,”Mathemagical.” What a game changer! It took me a long time, but it was the best investment that I have ever purchased for myself! There were many tears but I ended up working through it all And found out that I really love meditation. I work my meditation with my prayer time. And I got rid of all the baggage that I had been carrying around for years. I am very grateful for my family, Friends, and others who have helped me in this journey. And I’m very grateful to Graham for following his heart and opening these platforms up for his followers and encouraging us to be the best that we can be!
Wow. Thank you for sharing your journey Mary. I send you my very best🙏🏼 I’ve passed along your message to Lynette as well
Many thanks Graham for passing my message on to Lynette. Her and yours audiobook was a game changer for me, although it took me over a year to go through everything. I was even able to work through things that had happened many years ago and for this I am so very grateful to the two of you for following your hearts!! Just want you both to know, I am the captain of my ship now!, And it feels so good! All of my blessings and all my love, Mary Richards
Where do you purchase Lynette Elinda and Graham’s audio boo, Mathemagical? I am anxious to listen to it!
Hi Karen. You can  contact Lynette here, and ask her where to purchase the Mathemagical audiobook. She is in the process of changing some of the ways to be notified, and this may be the easiest one to reach her. You won’t be disappointed, as I stated in my reply to the poem, it was the best investment I have ever purchased for myself. But please do the homework and the meditations and take your time through at all. I just can’t say enough good things about it, it changed my life.
Support@LynnetteElinda.com. Please keep me informed, and if I can help you in anyway don’t hesitate to ask. Thank you for your reply. And best of luck to you. 🙏🙏 Blessings... 
I tried the link to Lynette Elinda about purchasing “ Mathemagical” . I received a notice that it was not delivered because the address was not accepted.
Can you advise me on my next course of action? Thank you!
I am now finding the time to properly comment. This poem comes at a unique time in my life and it resonates with me. I know I have spoken openly about my abusive childhood that then went into abusive adult relationships. I will go a little more deeply. I grew up in Appalachian Kentucky. I grew up poor and I grew up without Jesus and therefore I grew up in a horrible abusive home; emotionally, sexually and physically. I decided I would not be a product of my upbringing but I didn't exactly prevail....at first. I ended up being a pregnant teen and kept my baby even though family members told me to abort. I carried this child that I thought would give me the love I never had, that's a lot to put on a child. As soon as I graduated highschool I went to college on grants and scholarships. I was determined to get away from the appalachian life of poverty. When my daughter was 18 months old I ended up pregnant again in a horrible relationship. I still graduated in 2006 with my bachelors in Accounting. As soon as I graduated I sought jobs in other states so I could get away TOTALLY. I found a job in Virginia and I fled alone with my babies. I found a church (I was NOT raised in church) due to surfing the radio and hearing a local preacher on air. This was the beginning of my life. This church enveloped me and my kids. In 2011 I met my husband. He was stationed in Virginia because he was in the military there. He is quite a bit older than I am, some may say I fell for him because I have daddy issues but honestly he made me feel safe and still does. He is also very much so in love with Jesus. We had more in common than just our relationship with Christ, he is also from Kentucky. He is from Western KY as I am from Eastern KY. God has a sense of humor. We have been living in Kansas for a little while now after traveling the world. My in-laws are both up in age and unable to care for their 400 acre cattle ranch on their own any longer. We have made the decision that my husband will officially retire and we will move to Western KY to care for the farm and family. I must say that I have anxiety about only being about 3 hours from my past. With the distance I have kept I have been able to "move on". Now I have to face the drama and the state I ran from many years ago. I would appreciate many prayers as we make this big move. I have self medicated against my past with animals and a lot of them that we will be transporting to Kentucky as well.
Wow, Lynette, thank you for sharing your story of overcoming! Prayers up!
Wow, what an amazing story. Thank you so much for sharing. You are a brave, strong woman and I believe you will be fine. My prayers are with you. My husband grew up in western Kentucky. ❤️🙏🙏
I hope this doesn't come across as flippant: I strongly feel you are going to be FINE back in KY. You have already met and won so many great battles. I believe the farm, though it is hard work, will be a little heaven for you. We'll carry you in our hearts.
wow is right you have worked hard to overcome.... I will hold you in my prayers and wish the very best for you
Lynette…the very best to you and your family on your move back to Kentucky.🙏
My prayers are with you Lynette. You can do this. You have been opening up & dealing with your traumatic past. You are taking more steps to heal as you go through life. None of this is easy, but you are doing it. Be proud of what you have accomplished. Believe in yourself. If you need help, ask for it. Seek it out. Moving so close is bringing back some of your fears, but I believe in you.
(Again, seek help if moving becomes too much for you.)
I wish you all the very best. 💖🙏🙏🙏
Prayers for you, family and your many animals. TY for sharing your story of perseverance.
Lynette what a story!! So glad that you found happiness after all that. Prayers for you and thank you so much for sharing you are so brave!!!
Praying for you! Thanks for sharing your story! God bless you!
Another beautiful poem Graham, thank you. Forgiveness is the key to shedding the ropes of your past. If you don’t forgive you can never move forward. Your thoughts will always be controlled by your past. Learn to let go. Keep life simple. The things that really matter are always right in front of you. Be kind and love with all your heart! Take care my friends 🙏💕
I totally agree with you, Mary!🙏✨
Well said!
Amen Mary!
The video is amazing introduction to another inspiring poem. As I reflect on my life’s journey and how I dealt with the “ropes or bumps” along the way, it was my faith that got me through those times..it wasn’t always easy. It was a process of learning to let go of the things I couldn’t control, trusting the God would take care of them and to focus on the present, keeping my heart and mind open to the “ road signs” along the way. Just these past couple of months I took the steps to untie one of those ropes, as a result new blessings came into my life. Am currently facing another bump, the family trip we had planned had to be put on hold due to a sciatic nerve issues I am having which makes getting around very difficult. It has been a challenge for me both emotionally and physically, I know by letting go of that which I can’t control, my faith will show me the path during this trial.
Quote from Little Book of Love Letters to the World
“You may not always end up where you thought you were going
but you will always end up where you were meant to be.”
I love that quote and the others you continually share with our chat group on Telegram. You have such an amazing positive outlook on things. Continued prayers for healing. 🙏🙏❤️
Linda I’ve had the same condition and have undergone several epidural procedures. The last one across my whole back at S1 seems to have made a difference. Perhaps you should consider that if you have not already. Wishing you well. 🙏🏻💜
I like the quote you shared. I know the sciatic nerve pain how much it changes what you can do but I want you to know I started injections in the SI joints and have found great relief and was able to finally drive a 2 day trip from VT to Indiana. I of course am not a doctor but thought I'd share
Praying for you Linda! Let’s meet up for coffee and a hug and some good laughs!
I can relate in some way to your current bump as I've had one of my own. It's hard not to fall, but to focus on the recovery & a good future ahead. But with that focus, you can move forward & stop from being bound by those annoying ropes that try to stall you from life. 🙏💖
Linda again I am so sorry that you had to put your trip on hold. I know that you were so looking forward. So, they say when one door closes another opens. Things happen for a reason!!!! Something even more beautiful is coming your way!!!!
Oh Kathleen this is what I needed to hear this morning as I had a pretty rough night. Your kind words have been helping me remember to trust the path God has planned for me. Blessings to you!
Praying that sciatic pain will go away soon!
Very cool intro, Graham. I kept waiting and waiting and then…there he is! Lol Regarding “untying” the old ropes, I’m not sure we can or even should try to do this because I believe that to a large extent we are the product of our past…good, bad, ugly, indifferent. It’s here to stay. I am reminded of the philosophy that past, present and future coexist. What I struggle with is how the things of the past can negatively affect my present. How to deal? Well, I pray a lot and that really helps. And rather than trying to “escape,” I embrace the past and see it as something I can build on. I could go on, but I’ll leave it at that. Very thought provoking poem!! Ciao.
It is so interesting that you and I have expressed the same emotion pertaining to the past. Those ropes. We both embrace the lessons of the past. I do not shun them or reject them. They are the reason I am who I am today. 🙏🏻💜
Yes! No fear. Relax and let's move forward!