I truly loved this weeks poem especially because it is more fun and playful , just what we need. I agree life has its ups and downs, bad things do happen but I try to get past them really quickly as in the long run I have so much to be grateful for. I’m blessed that I have met the love of my life my soulmate from a very young age. We have had a blessed and happy life for nearly 35 years , we are very proud for our daughter as we raised one of the kindest and most beautiful person and in all honesty I wouldn’t change anything! Im blessed and grateful 🙏💖✨
I posted a reply to your post, but it disappeared so if I end up replying twice, I apologize. Your life is very similar to mine. I married my high school sweetheart and we've been together almost 50 years (45 of them married). We have raised two beautiful daughter and they both married amazing young men. We now enjoy 5 grandchildren. We feel truly blessed and grateful as well. Of course, there have been ups and downs along the way, but the downs make the ups that much sweeter. Enjoy your sweet family. I believe family is life's greatest blessing!!
Deal with the present because that’s what we are in but won’t be for long!
Surround the present with those who are dearest to you to create a “power shield” of protection and support which allows you to move forward to plan for the future and hopefully be there with you in the journey. Personally, I learn from my past but can not change it. I live in the present trying to help others and staying in touch I care about reaching for goals that I still feel are attainable. Clint Eastwood said it best! “A man must know his limitations!” Especially true at 73!! The future is finite I will only reach for that which is attainable. Who knows when the time is up? Make the most of what you can!
I couldn't agree more about people being where it's at. Relationships are at the top of my priority list. So therefore, making time to spend with those we love is paramount. Life is far too short to miss those moments.
As I have gotten older I have finally realized I must keep the past in the past. I cannot go back and change any of it. And to be honest, how many of us would actually change things. I believe we would probably make the same mistakes again. 🤷♀️ Living for today is the best thing we can do!
Leigh~we needed our past to make us who we are today.....experienced, wiser, hurt and healed ....all helping us with our choices on our journey to “there”.
We are powerless to control the past we can only live every day to the fullest extent and make sure you move forward and not backward in repeating mistakes you’ve made previously
I really like what you say here. I try to live my life this way now. I have recently found a great group of people to add to my circle. My family is wonderful and I am grateful for all of them.
we have been going to our local park on tuesdays for music and food and fun all together...loving it. thank you. I hope you are able to be with your people as well.
Jody the past is past you can not alter what has already happened however you can always learn from what you believe you did wrong or could have done better!
Correct JLCrackdoc we learn through our mistakes and from our mistakes we get wiser.We try to move on without repeating the past.That is how we enjoy life to the fullest.
Graham, I like your perspective on this. Like you, once in awhile I tend to look to the future, but I usually don't allow myself to stay there for any length of time any more. For me, I really try and stay in the present moment. If I feel like I'm being guided to start or add something new to my current life, then I tend to be still, tune in, and pray to God for that guidance. I won't start anything unless I feel sure God has a hand in it. I don't want to cling to the past. It's just that, the past. Living in the present is what I choose now. I want to enjoy life, have fun with family and friends. Also, what is probably one of the most important things for me is to be there for others, to let them know they are appreciated, loved, and that someone cares for them. I can honestly say I am very happy with where I am in life right now. Yes this health and wellness journey I'm on is not easy, but I'm learning so much along the way, and also appreciate the life I've been given. ONE DAY AT A TIME!!! Anything in life that's worth it takes a lot of hard work to receive the bounty of blessings. I choose the present, not to live in the past and not cling to the future because ultimately, I can't control the future. That will come in it's own time.
Graham, thank you again for this wonderful and inspirational poem. I wish you safe travels and God speed on your current journey. All the best! Cheers!
Anne, you have a rare gift of having a heart to reach out to people. It has been obvious for many months that you have had a positive influence on the lives of those who gather in this group. We appreciate you! Your gift is surely from God and will only grow. Blessings to you!
Oh Philip, I'm shedding tears of appreciation as I read your comment. I truly appreciate it. I've been truly blessed by the encouragement from Graham and this group. I don't think I would be where I am right now if that were not the case. This is just who I am as long as God is the guiding light. I love encouraging and lifting others up. This world is one chaotic place these days and people need to know they're appreciated, loved, etc. Blessings to you my friend!
Yes we need to appreciate and encourage one another,to pray for one another.Blessings to every my friends in this awesome community.Thanks to Graham who created and started this community.
Christine, thank you for these kind words. I’m really at a loss for words right now. I’m eternally grateful and humbled. It’s all God working through Graham and this entire community. Have a wonderful rest of the week and God bless! 🙏❤️
Thank you Laura. You are sweet to say this, and you're a true friend, and I'm glad we've gotten to know another through this community. Take care and God bless!
Hi Jody. You are doing great. I am very proud of you. Like you said, if we don't take care of ourselves, how can we be here to encourage others especially family or anyone else? I've learned that the hard way. I may reflect on the past from time to time, but I certainly don't want to go back there. Thank you for your kind comments. We are here today because of this amazing community and Graham's wonderful uplifting and inspirational poems. I am forever grateful! Take care and God bless!
I am here, excitedly setting the sails of my ship to leave the harbor. The future awaits. I don't know what it will be like there. I have faith in my own power to make something good out of 'there'. In the meantime, I experience every step here as a growth opportunity. I say goodbye to my old life, have fun with my friends. I enjoy every moment of this journey. I feel the stars twinkle in my being. I live here and now, focused on a new adventure. I love it! 🎶✨
Being a planner my whole life and wanting to know what was coming next as much as possible, I've joked with my friends and family this past year that I'm learning to be spontaneous. I'm so grateful for this phase of life and my newfound freedom. Of course there are plans to be made, but I'm just enjoying being able to choose at any moment to go on an adventure, or try something new, or take the opportunities that arise to spend time with people. The past doesn't hold me back and the future will take care of itself. Embracing the moment that I'm in and the people around me brings a lot of peace and satisfaction. Love this Suessical, light-hearted poem and the adventure you're on, Graham. Enjoy all the moments!
Being a teacher (or a control freak whichever you choose) I also had to learn to enjoy my freedom when I retired. But it IS glorious embracing the moment, isn't it? Of course, now I have to make a budget instead of lesson plans. Ha Ha! It's worth it!
Glorious is a great word for my life these days. We're having to pare back our planned adventures this summer to not blow our budget out of the water, but adjusting is ok. I'm really loving going with the flow currently. I didn't really plan to retire when I did, but I'm loving it!
I am so not bored. In fact, I think I'm just as busy as I was when I was working. But now it's with fun stuff! I do have more time to read, write, go for walks, etc., so the flexibility is a win/win.
Cathey, I was a planner also, in my younger days. You are right about the freedom to be spontaneous! Living in the now has been a journey for me, but it's so much better!
Upon reading the poem & watching the video several times, I'm not really sure where I am at the moment. I lost my compass for a time & am trying to find my way. I guess I am trying to find myself again & at the same time, trying to discover who I am.
So currently I am trying to live one day at a time to find myself & my purpose. Trying not to look back or forward but concentrate on developing that good relationship with myself.
Hang on one day at a time! Don't expect too much of yourself or try to sort your entire future or let past failings deter your progress. You are a beautiful person and so loved! Maybe that's all you need to focus on for now. 💕
Thank you so much Cathey🙏. You always seem to know what to say to me. I am trying to live more in the present & not put too much pressure on myself. Getting there slowly. Work in progress. Thanks again. 🙏😊💕
God morning and happy Tuesday Graham, I really love this poem. This is life and we must keep living. We are also encridibly powerful and worthy of everything our hearts desire. I am in a slow working progress of leaving my medical fast and with God I will get there. Everyday my first relationship is with God. Our current world situations seems to be more hate, more crime, new restrictions on life it can feel like you are drowning in an unpredictable raging sea. But God says he is here, holding down His right hand for us to grab ahold of. I take few extra minutes daily and find a quiet space, pray. Pray until I can feel his presence. Pray not only for peace and healing in our world but in our heart and home as well. Today be renewed is strength, victory and compassion.
Breath-
Life can come up like a roaring sea,
Watching the swells
Tying to catch your breath
Feeling like it crashes around you.
But in this power
You can find peace .
Step one foot at a time
And feel the sands
Comfort you
Beneath your feet.
Never leaving
Standing strong
You may bend
But never fall-
Keep your eyes on the horizon
Where the sun will always rise.
Find in him- Peace,
Close your eyes.
Be still-
as the sun
Caress your skin,
Warning your body
Erasing the pain with in.
Watch the waves with strength and glory
For each trial,
Comes a lesson, a story
A ray of sunshine
For the next fallen soldier.
Be still and wait-
For the tide to come in.
Psalm 29:11
“ The Lord gives strength to his people ; the Lord blesses his people with peace.
Lucy…I wondered if I would see a comment from you today. I am so happy that I did. Bless you as you continue your healing journey. I will keep praying for your successful recovery.🙏
Lucy, you are such a ray of sunshine! You bless each of us with your amazing attitude and beautiful soul. God bless you on your continued journey. 🙏❤️🥰
Good Morning Graham and Dr. Seuss, How do I handle a situation and what do I do? Depending on what it is. I hope with honesty, integrity and respect. I don’t fake it! Last week, I had a situation where I shared a concern with someone I respected and then was totally “played” for information. I felt disrespected as in “playfulness” they went here and there and to a middle person to get what I knew.
Broken…
Where have the soft edges gone?
A flag of fear tucked for no one to see?
Where is the flame that burns
that is now denied and hidden?
Discovery.
A false facade, a costume, an illusion.
Is this hypnotism, a magic trick?
Heartbreak.
Kindness, compassion, love, are empty words,
Tossed around carelessly.
Respect, tenderness is gone.
Empty eyes, animated body movements.
Sharp edges manifest.
The risk, loss of honor, integrity and loyalty.
Acting.
Fear.
Grief.
Trust.
Shame.
Intuition lays assaulted.
I thought you were real….only an illusion.
This poem came to me in a dream after several days. After days of mixed feelings, here, there and everywhere. I felt tossed aside after someone gets what they want from you. Played. I went against my gutt, my intuition. Yes, Dr. Seuss, I can write my feelings and emotions, too! As the poet Maya Angelou wrote….”when a person shows you their true self, believe it.”
Thank you Tricia! I wish I had the opportunity to know you better. Today, I am moving away from the distractions and refocusing on the best and most loyal of those in my life, myself and God. I will be leaving Substack at the end of the month, have left Telegram and blocked and unfollowed many. For me, it is stepping into the light and sharing, grace, honesty & integrity. We will all meet again one day. Cheers!❤️🙏
My heart goes out to you Connie, I know how it feels to be 'played' by others and for info that I know. It is hard to come back from. I have recently had a situation where I have shared with someone insights from Divine guidance and then wished I had kept my mouth shut. I am thinking of that scripture about not throwing your pearls before swine. Sounds harsh I know, but I am learning the hard way about only sharing with some who will respect and benefit from my intuition.
Love you Carole! Hope I am not that person. If I am, please forgive me, we both deserve better. Being played can bring about such pain. I think my path must lead away from all this what feels like craziness.
It's not you Connie. It's often my experience here in my community.The whole of my life is crazy just now. Sometimes I think I will wake from my life and realise it was all just a dream. On those days I make complete sense to my egoic self - but my heart cries out for craziness once more. Impossible!!
We all deserve grace and respect. There is no risk in that, yet some fear it. Today has been a mixed bag for me, I prayed for a message that related to my poem and God answered, I could use my voice bravely. A friend misunderstood the tone of my voice and got miffed. And, I had the opportunity to speak with two retail clerks who are exhausted and discouraged. I hope looking into their eyes and hearts, listening and giving them words of appreciation helped them. We are in difficult times in so many ways. Maybe we thrive in craziness… Love you!❤️❤️
Connie, I’m so sorry you were used like that. It is especially difficult to be betrayed by someone you trust and care about. Blessings and love are coming your way. 🙏🥰❤️
Thanks Leigh! For thinking of me. I felt like a victim (shame on them) but now feel like a hero. This is my truth and all that really matters. Lesson well learned. Some are wolves in sheep’s clothing. Scamming comes in many ways. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I read today ( really special) an interview with an old man. He was asked : Where do you mostly like to spend your time , in your cottage, in your boat ,at home? He answered: I like mostly to be where I am just now in the moment, wherever I am. So good.
Before Mom passed, my head was always miles ahead in the future. Then I was forced to step into the now and be more present for my kids which I’m learning was a very good thing for them, and for me too. It’s still a foreign feeling but I’m becoming more comfortable here. My head still runs a bit ahead sometimes, but I’m learning to be happy here.
Aimee you are doing a great job and have been for along time. To bring up three kids on your own and now dealing with the loss of your mum takes an immense amount of inner strength. I’m glad to hear you are now more comfortable in the here even though it feels a little alien to you( I thought using the word alien would be very apt for you😁). Like that hill you are climbing one step at a time, but occasionally stop to give yourself a pat on the back because you bloody well deserve it. The girl done good and is doing good! 🤗❤️
Aimee, you are doing an amazing job....your kiddos are blessed to have you and to call you mom. One moment, one event, one day at a time....I’m very proud of you! Many hugs💞
Happy Tuesday, Graham...thank-you for sharing another piece of your writing with us!
As a single mom to three daughters, I spent more time in the “here” to keep us going each day without much thought, time or energy to get to the “there”. As my youngest left college, more time emerged to begin to focus on the transition as to the “there” and what that looked like. I enjoy watching my daughters living their”here”, being in the moment far better than I could raising them, to get themselves to their “there”.
I am presently the full time caregiver to my mother so, my “here” has me focused on getting us to “there”.....enjoying and being grateful for every day, every activity, every laugh, every “that was a great day”.
Some day will be my time to focus on my “here” to get me to my “there” but for now I’m grateful for my time spent in the “here” to raise three amazing young women who are living their “here”...their best life and quite enjoying myself. Also, very grateful that I can give my mother her “here” and “there”!
Blessings to you, Graham on your journey and as always keep your light shining!🙏🏼💞
Cindy, sounds like you have had a lot on your hands, but have taken it in your stride with a positive attitude that amazing me. Blessings to you & your family. 🙏
Thank-you, Christine for your kind words. It wasn’t always easy, but, we did it with lots of love and laughter! Love and laughter may be even more important now with my caregiver role!😊
Cindy I understand what you are saying and I love that you are proud and happy for your girls as they experience their lives. I am so impressed that you can care for your mother and feel gratitude about that even tho maybe one might think this was your time & resent that. You are a very kind person!❤️❤️❤️
Thank-you, Teresa for your very kind words. I am very proud of my three girls and what the four of us accomplished....it wasn’t always easy but I do believe it has made them the kindhearted, strong, adventurous young women they are today. I must say being a caregiver has its moments when it is a very hard struggle but then I remind myself what it must be like for this beautiful woman I am blessed to call my mom. Have a great day!
Good morning Graham happy Tuesday my favourite day! Good morning my substack friends .What a blessed day! I thank God for my life I always thank God for another day as I wake up in the morning and a good night’s rest too.I love my life I have a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.With my age of 79 I just take one day at a time.It is only Him who holds the future,what is next to come we do not know.My mobility is now limited due to arthritis and hip replacements (both) my only wish and prayers for now is to have a family reunion with my children and grandchildren when I turn 80 next year.My prayers is that my children and grandchildren will all be available to attend our reunion next year.I pray that I will still be able to travel by that time.Our reunion will be held in the Philippines which is my point of origin.My children are scattered all over the globe.If everyone will be gathered together it will be amazing.I will close my both eyes happily and contentedly .God bless everyone.
I am 82 yrs old so I don't know how much of a future I have but I intend to live "here" to the best of my ability. I can still take my walks (when the heat is not so oppressive) I can still do HIIT exercises and I can still get on my knees before God. Life is good!!!
I love Tuesdays. I so look forward to your poems Graham. I always feel that they are directed right at me. I didn't comment right away on todays poem. I needed to think a bit. Next Monday marks the 6th Anniversary of my husbands death. Yesterday, I started putting away some of his things that I still had out. His "Harley" hats. A piece of the leather from his motorcycle gas tank decoration that someone had framed for us. Which tells me that its time for me to leave the "past". I have spent enough time dwelling on the loss and my old life. The "Here" no longer appeals to me either. Its the "There" that has gotten my attention, piqued my curiouslity. I am looking forward to a new chapter in my life. I'm nervous about it. Between my age and what could be a health issue, its scary. My kids are pretty far away. So leaving them is not an issue. I worry about losing friends. But then Donny Mac asked me "why would I lose them". And he is right. They will always remain my friends. My "there" should prove interesting in hopefully the not too distant future.
Donna I lost my husband 11 years ago but still remember how difficult it was to turn loose of some of his things. I took my time and loosened the ties as I felt compelled. It is not the things but him that I miss and he is always in my heart. Almost two years ago, after much prayer, and I was totally comfort with the decision, I moved 500 miles away from family and friends, but they are still very much my family and friends...Best of luck to you and God bless.
Donna~ I am happy for you that you are entertaining and embracing a transition from your “here” to a new “there” for you. Change can be very scary but can be beautiful and so rewarding. Only you can decide when the “time” is right to make that change and it sounds like your “Time Has Come”! How fitting since Graham is the reason we are all a part of this beautiful and very supportive community. This community proves that we are located all over the world and still remain friends! 💝 Prayers and hugs!🙏🏼💞
Donna, I too lost my husband a few years ago. I lived in the past too long & I have tried to not live there but I find comfort there. It’s not a healthy comfort for me though. I am trying to live only in the now, not think too much about the past nor the future. If I am happy for the afternoon or evening, I try not to question it just happy, grateful, content in those feelings. Take care ❤️❤️❤️
I remember Donny Mac saying that to you. He is right. I enjoyed talking with you after that LIVE. We should plan on meeting soon. As others have said, you will not lose me as a friend, take care and God bless! 🙏🏻❤️
We were planning to visit our friend in Moorhead NC as he retired now and visit our few friends in Jacksonville and Havelock after I can travel . We should plan this Anne and we can walk at the beach.
Me too I used to travel International by myself meeting few of my friends thru our medical missions and most prior military life as we were stationed in NC . After I am thru this beautification journey I want to travel again and meet with other friends.
Donna be strong my friend God will always be with you.Just look up and ask guidance and direction from him.You will never get lost my friend. Blessings to you.
Graham, such a fun poem and thought provoking questions. Having recently faced feelings from the past (the there) that I had been holding onto, I find I’m giving myself the time to enjoy the blessings of my life. The past has brought me to where I am today, I can’t change it but can use what I have learned along the way to live and be present here in this moment of my life. Am embracing where I am now in my life, trusting that God will continue to guide me on my life’s journey, and give thanks for the unknown blessings that are on their way.
This quote by Max Ehrmann, reminds me of advice that Graham has shared, especially the first line.
Agree, we need to be more kind to ourselves & gentle as well. We seem to always be in a rush these days, and we need to slow and be a part of life like you appear to be doing Linda. 🙏💕
Linda~I hadn’t read this quote from Max Ehrmann for some time so I’m grateful for you sharing it here. I needed the “Be gentle with yourself” reminder today. Thank-you!🙏🏼💞
Thanks Graham, I enjoy reading
your poems every week as they inspire me in
many ways.. You write and speak from the heart.
I truly loved this weeks poem especially because it is more fun and playful , just what we need. I agree life has its ups and downs, bad things do happen but I try to get past them really quickly as in the long run I have so much to be grateful for. I’m blessed that I have met the love of my life my soulmate from a very young age. We have had a blessed and happy life for nearly 35 years , we are very proud for our daughter as we raised one of the kindest and most beautiful person and in all honesty I wouldn’t change anything! Im blessed and grateful 🙏💖✨
Irene ~ I liked this week's poem too because it was fun & playful.
I agree Jan :)
I posted a reply to your post, but it disappeared so if I end up replying twice, I apologize. Your life is very similar to mine. I married my high school sweetheart and we've been together almost 50 years (45 of them married). We have raised two beautiful daughter and they both married amazing young men. We now enjoy 5 grandchildren. We feel truly blessed and grateful as well. Of course, there have been ups and downs along the way, but the downs make the ups that much sweeter. Enjoy your sweet family. I believe family is life's greatest blessing!!
I agree Jody , family is life's greatest blessing . I wouldn't change a single thing from this journey :)
I'm so happy you have your soul mate by your side. 💕
Thanks mate :)
That’s the way to go Jody ! Great job!
Learn from past not live in the past;
Plan for future but can’t live there yet.
Deal with the present because that’s what we are in but won’t be for long!
Surround the present with those who are dearest to you to create a “power shield” of protection and support which allows you to move forward to plan for the future and hopefully be there with you in the journey. Personally, I learn from my past but can not change it. I live in the present trying to help others and staying in touch I care about reaching for goals that I still feel are attainable. Clint Eastwood said it best! “A man must know his limitations!” Especially true at 73!! The future is finite I will only reach for that which is attainable. Who knows when the time is up? Make the most of what you can!
I couldn't agree more about people being where it's at. Relationships are at the top of my priority list. So therefore, making time to spend with those we love is paramount. Life is far too short to miss those moments.
As I have gotten older I have finally realized I must keep the past in the past. I cannot go back and change any of it. And to be honest, how many of us would actually change things. I believe we would probably make the same mistakes again. 🤷♀️ Living for today is the best thing we can do!
Leigh~we needed our past to make us who we are today.....experienced, wiser, hurt and healed ....all helping us with our choices on our journey to “there”.
We are powerless to control the past we can only live every day to the fullest extent and make sure you move forward and not backward in repeating mistakes you’ve made previously
I really like what you say here. I try to live my life this way now. I have recently found a great group of people to add to my circle. My family is wonderful and I am grateful for all of them.
Surely Bonnie you are blessed and enjoy them in any way you can for we can never know what lies ahead!
we have been going to our local park on tuesdays for music and food and fun all together...loving it. thank you. I hope you are able to be with your people as well.
Good advice from you, as always! I share your philosophy about all of this. Maybe it's an age thing realizing what's really important and what isn't.
Yes, many times I tell parents (and myself) we have to pick our battles.
Love that idea of the "power shield" of protection! Thank you for that comment - such a great term.
Tricia feel free to use it!!
Jody the past is past you can not alter what has already happened however you can always learn from what you believe you did wrong or could have done better!
Correct JLCrackdoc we learn through our mistakes and from our mistakes we get wiser.We try to move on without repeating the past.That is how we enjoy life to the fullest.
Graham, I like your perspective on this. Like you, once in awhile I tend to look to the future, but I usually don't allow myself to stay there for any length of time any more. For me, I really try and stay in the present moment. If I feel like I'm being guided to start or add something new to my current life, then I tend to be still, tune in, and pray to God for that guidance. I won't start anything unless I feel sure God has a hand in it. I don't want to cling to the past. It's just that, the past. Living in the present is what I choose now. I want to enjoy life, have fun with family and friends. Also, what is probably one of the most important things for me is to be there for others, to let them know they are appreciated, loved, and that someone cares for them. I can honestly say I am very happy with where I am in life right now. Yes this health and wellness journey I'm on is not easy, but I'm learning so much along the way, and also appreciate the life I've been given. ONE DAY AT A TIME!!! Anything in life that's worth it takes a lot of hard work to receive the bounty of blessings. I choose the present, not to live in the past and not cling to the future because ultimately, I can't control the future. That will come in it's own time.
Graham, thank you again for this wonderful and inspirational poem. I wish you safe travels and God speed on your current journey. All the best! Cheers!
Anne, you have a rare gift of having a heart to reach out to people. It has been obvious for many months that you have had a positive influence on the lives of those who gather in this group. We appreciate you! Your gift is surely from God and will only grow. Blessings to you!
Oh Philip, I'm shedding tears of appreciation as I read your comment. I truly appreciate it. I've been truly blessed by the encouragement from Graham and this group. I don't think I would be where I am right now if that were not the case. This is just who I am as long as God is the guiding light. I love encouraging and lifting others up. This world is one chaotic place these days and people need to know they're appreciated, loved, etc. Blessings to you my friend!
Yes we need to appreciate and encourage one another,to pray for one another.Blessings to every my friends in this awesome community.Thanks to Graham who created and started this community.
Amen. We are all very grateful to Graham. God bless.
So true: "This world is one chaotic place these days and people need to know they're appreciated, loved, etc." May God bless each and every one of us.
I agree with you Philip. Anne is an amazing person. 👍
Christine, thank you for these kind words. I’m really at a loss for words right now. I’m eternally grateful and humbled. It’s all God working through Graham and this entire community. Have a wonderful rest of the week and God bless! 🙏❤️
Amen! Philip, I agree 100%! Anne does have a gift and she has been a blessing!
Anne is a great example to us of living life in the present and doing what she has been called to do. May we all find our calling and be true to it.
Thank you Tricia! I appreciate everyone’s kind words. Take care and God bless!
Inspiring! Your words never cease to amaze me. You are a kind friend!
Thank you Laura. You are sweet to say this, and you're a true friend, and I'm glad we've gotten to know another through this community. Take care and God bless!
Wow, beautiful message, praying is powerful and God is always by your side. I am glad to see you happy. Thanks for so much inspiration. ❤
Thank you Elizabeth! God is always there if we choose to let him. I am very happy and content. I owe it all to HIM! Take care and God bless! 🙏🏻❤️
Ann thank you you are a wonderful supportive person to all those around you thank you for continuing to be you. God surely a has given a true gift.
Hi Jody. You are doing great. I am very proud of you. Like you said, if we don't take care of ourselves, how can we be here to encourage others especially family or anyone else? I've learned that the hard way. I may reflect on the past from time to time, but I certainly don't want to go back there. Thank you for your kind comments. We are here today because of this amazing community and Graham's wonderful uplifting and inspirational poems. I am forever grateful! Take care and God bless!
I am here, excitedly setting the sails of my ship to leave the harbor. The future awaits. I don't know what it will be like there. I have faith in my own power to make something good out of 'there'. In the meantime, I experience every step here as a growth opportunity. I say goodbye to my old life, have fun with my friends. I enjoy every moment of this journey. I feel the stars twinkle in my being. I live here and now, focused on a new adventure. I love it! 🎶✨
Thanks for this beautiful poem, Graham. 🙏
Lots of love to everyone💕
Good luck with your future endeavours. 🍀
Blue ~ Can’t wait to hear about your journey to your “there”!
This should say Bie...not blue, silly autocorrect!!
That sounds like such a great "there" to look forward to. I am trying to get in the same place.
Back at ya' Enjoy the 'there' -- wherever it may be -- whenever you land. xoxo
I am excited for you to share more about your new adventure as it happens!
Hi Cathey, on july 3th we will be moving to the French Pyrenees to start a new life in the mountains...
Sounds amazing! Good for you.
Wow amazing should be exciting!
Good luck to your new journey Bie.Blessings be upon you God be with you always
Being a planner my whole life and wanting to know what was coming next as much as possible, I've joked with my friends and family this past year that I'm learning to be spontaneous. I'm so grateful for this phase of life and my newfound freedom. Of course there are plans to be made, but I'm just enjoying being able to choose at any moment to go on an adventure, or try something new, or take the opportunities that arise to spend time with people. The past doesn't hold me back and the future will take care of itself. Embracing the moment that I'm in and the people around me brings a lot of peace and satisfaction. Love this Suessical, light-hearted poem and the adventure you're on, Graham. Enjoy all the moments!
Being a teacher (or a control freak whichever you choose) I also had to learn to enjoy my freedom when I retired. But it IS glorious embracing the moment, isn't it? Of course, now I have to make a budget instead of lesson plans. Ha Ha! It's worth it!
Glorious is a great word for my life these days. We're having to pare back our planned adventures this summer to not blow our budget out of the water, but adjusting is ok. I'm really loving going with the flow currently. I didn't really plan to retire when I did, but I'm loving it!
It is fun to retire sometimes but it is boring so we have to plan and look for something to do for fulfillment.
I am so not bored. In fact, I think I'm just as busy as I was when I was working. But now it's with fun stuff! I do have more time to read, write, go for walks, etc., so the flexibility is a win/win.
I too am a planner. Sometimes too much. I have to live more in the present.
It's hard to let go when planning is how you're wired, but once you figure out how to let the plans be flexible, it's so freeing!
Yep. Need to do that more. 💕
I feel totally identified with your comments, feeling more spontaneous makes me very happy.
I have fully embraced spontaneity! And it’s pretty great...
Cathey, I was a planner also, in my younger days. You are right about the freedom to be spontaneous! Living in the now has been a journey for me, but it's so much better!
It was a journey for me to get here, too, and now I don't know why I waited so long!
Upon reading the poem & watching the video several times, I'm not really sure where I am at the moment. I lost my compass for a time & am trying to find my way. I guess I am trying to find myself again & at the same time, trying to discover who I am.
So currently I am trying to live one day at a time to find myself & my purpose. Trying not to look back or forward but concentrate on developing that good relationship with myself.
Hang on one day at a time! Don't expect too much of yourself or try to sort your entire future or let past failings deter your progress. You are a beautiful person and so loved! Maybe that's all you need to focus on for now. 💕
Thank you so much Cathey🙏. You always seem to know what to say to me. I am trying to live more in the present & not put too much pressure on myself. Getting there slowly. Work in progress. Thanks again. 🙏😊💕
Christine…keep working on your relationship with yourself. Good things will come in time…peace and harmony sustainable for the long term.🙏
Thanks Danny🙏
God morning and happy Tuesday Graham, I really love this poem. This is life and we must keep living. We are also encridibly powerful and worthy of everything our hearts desire. I am in a slow working progress of leaving my medical fast and with God I will get there. Everyday my first relationship is with God. Our current world situations seems to be more hate, more crime, new restrictions on life it can feel like you are drowning in an unpredictable raging sea. But God says he is here, holding down His right hand for us to grab ahold of. I take few extra minutes daily and find a quiet space, pray. Pray until I can feel his presence. Pray not only for peace and healing in our world but in our heart and home as well. Today be renewed is strength, victory and compassion.
Breath-
Life can come up like a roaring sea,
Watching the swells
Tying to catch your breath
Feeling like it crashes around you.
But in this power
You can find peace .
Step one foot at a time
And feel the sands
Comfort you
Beneath your feet.
Never leaving
Standing strong
You may bend
But never fall-
Keep your eyes on the horizon
Where the sun will always rise.
Find in him- Peace,
Close your eyes.
Be still-
as the sun
Caress your skin,
Warning your body
Erasing the pain with in.
Watch the waves with strength and glory
For each trial,
Comes a lesson, a story
A ray of sunshine
For the next fallen soldier.
Be still and wait-
For the tide to come in.
Psalm 29:11
“ The Lord gives strength to his people ; the Lord blesses his people with peace.
Lucy…I wondered if I would see a comment from you today. I am so happy that I did. Bless you as you continue your healing journey. I will keep praying for your successful recovery.🙏
Thank you Danny I look forward Tuesday Graham poem and after yesterday I feel really good .
Love this Lucy! Prayers to you for a great recovery! 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you Anne 🙏❤️
Oh thank you! Love this, Lucy! Blessings to you dear sister!
Blessing to you Lucy & your road to recovery. So happy you have been able to contribute today. Take care & all the very best. 🙏💕
Thank you Christine I appreciate you , so far it’s been really good recovery. We go for long walks outdoors as of right now we just got home .
Lucy, that was truly beautiful! I am so happy to hear our doing well. Everything you wrote today I needed to hear, Thank You!
Lucy, You are a very strong woman. Mi prayers are with you. ❤
Thank you Elizabeth I appreciate you🙏❤️
Beautiful poem and beautiful verse!
Lucy, you are such a ray of sunshine! You bless each of us with your amazing attitude and beautiful soul. God bless you on your continued journey. 🙏❤️🥰
Thank you ❤️🙏
Dear Lucy, I'm glad to hear from you!
God is with you, always!
Thank you Angela I appreciate you 🙏❤️
Amen 🙏 God bless you Lucy ❤️
Thank you 🙏❤️
Thank you ❤️🙏
Good Morning Graham and Dr. Seuss, How do I handle a situation and what do I do? Depending on what it is. I hope with honesty, integrity and respect. I don’t fake it! Last week, I had a situation where I shared a concern with someone I respected and then was totally “played” for information. I felt disrespected as in “playfulness” they went here and there and to a middle person to get what I knew.
Broken…
Where have the soft edges gone?
A flag of fear tucked for no one to see?
Where is the flame that burns
that is now denied and hidden?
Discovery.
A false facade, a costume, an illusion.
Is this hypnotism, a magic trick?
Heartbreak.
Kindness, compassion, love, are empty words,
Tossed around carelessly.
Respect, tenderness is gone.
Empty eyes, animated body movements.
Sharp edges manifest.
The risk, loss of honor, integrity and loyalty.
Acting.
Fear.
Grief.
Trust.
Shame.
Intuition lays assaulted.
I thought you were real….only an illusion.
This poem came to me in a dream after several days. After days of mixed feelings, here, there and everywhere. I felt tossed aside after someone gets what they want from you. Played. I went against my gutt, my intuition. Yes, Dr. Seuss, I can write my feelings and emotions, too! As the poet Maya Angelou wrote….”when a person shows you their true self, believe it.”
Cheers!
Wow, thank you for sharing. Beautiful and powerful!
Thank you Tricia! I wish I had the opportunity to know you better. Today, I am moving away from the distractions and refocusing on the best and most loyal of those in my life, myself and God. I will be leaving Substack at the end of the month, have left Telegram and blocked and unfollowed many. For me, it is stepping into the light and sharing, grace, honesty & integrity. We will all meet again one day. Cheers!❤️🙏
I hope you come back to our amazing community Connie.
Thank you Elisa! God speed to you and this sweet community. ❤️❤️🙏🙏
Keep Standing strong, Connie. Blessings!
And Blessings to you!❤️🙏
My heart goes out to you Connie, I know how it feels to be 'played' by others and for info that I know. It is hard to come back from. I have recently had a situation where I have shared with someone insights from Divine guidance and then wished I had kept my mouth shut. I am thinking of that scripture about not throwing your pearls before swine. Sounds harsh I know, but I am learning the hard way about only sharing with some who will respect and benefit from my intuition.
Much love to you, dear friend.
Love you Carole! Hope I am not that person. If I am, please forgive me, we both deserve better. Being played can bring about such pain. I think my path must lead away from all this what feels like craziness.
It's not you Connie. It's often my experience here in my community.The whole of my life is crazy just now. Sometimes I think I will wake from my life and realise it was all just a dream. On those days I make complete sense to my egoic self - but my heart cries out for craziness once more. Impossible!!
We all deserve grace and respect. There is no risk in that, yet some fear it. Today has been a mixed bag for me, I prayed for a message that related to my poem and God answered, I could use my voice bravely. A friend misunderstood the tone of my voice and got miffed. And, I had the opportunity to speak with two retail clerks who are exhausted and discouraged. I hope looking into their eyes and hearts, listening and giving them words of appreciation helped them. We are in difficult times in so many ways. Maybe we thrive in craziness… Love you!❤️❤️
I'm so sorry to hear what you went through. I truly hope that you can get past this time & heal. 🙏
Connie, I’m so sorry you were used like that. It is especially difficult to be betrayed by someone you trust and care about. Blessings and love are coming your way. 🙏🥰❤️
Thanks Leigh! For thinking of me. I felt like a victim (shame on them) but now feel like a hero. This is my truth and all that really matters. Lesson well learned. Some are wolves in sheep’s clothing. Scamming comes in many ways. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Awww Thanks Susan. I’d like to believe that about myself. ❤️❤️🙏
It’s true, you are
Thank you, you are right and I deserved better. I’m sure you are a wonderful person. Appreciate your kindness! ❤️❤️❤️
Hi Jody, not sure if you mean Carol or Connie! Thank you from both of us.❤️❤️❤️
To quote Buckaroo Bonzai, ( an old farce comedy movie) :
" NO matter where you go, there you are."
TY Graham. Have a great week everybody.
GREAT quote! Hope you have an awesome week too!
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Love that quote, I have not heard that before but I will remember it, thank you.
Thank you. So much to think about.
I read today ( really special) an interview with an old man. He was asked : Where do you mostly like to spend your time , in your cottage, in your boat ,at home? He answered: I like mostly to be where I am just now in the moment, wherever I am. So good.
Best answer ever from that wise old man
Before Mom passed, my head was always miles ahead in the future. Then I was forced to step into the now and be more present for my kids which I’m learning was a very good thing for them, and for me too. It’s still a foreign feeling but I’m becoming more comfortable here. My head still runs a bit ahead sometimes, but I’m learning to be happy here.
You are doing a great job! I’m so proud of you! 💜💚
You are the best Irene 👏🏻
Aimee you are doing a great job and have been for along time. To bring up three kids on your own and now dealing with the loss of your mum takes an immense amount of inner strength. I’m glad to hear you are now more comfortable in the here even though it feels a little alien to you( I thought using the word alien would be very apt for you😁). Like that hill you are climbing one step at a time, but occasionally stop to give yourself a pat on the back because you bloody well deserve it. The girl done good and is doing good! 🤗❤️
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Aimee, you sound like you're doing an incredible job & finding some peace. I wish you all the best. 🙏💕
Thank you, I’m doing my best ❤️💚
Aimee, you are doing an amazing job....your kiddos are blessed to have you and to call you mom. One moment, one event, one day at a time....I’m very proud of you! Many hugs💞
Thank you Cindy, that means so much! ❤️💚
Aimee, I’m so proud of how far you have already come. You are doing a great job. Much love to you. ❤️🙏
Thank you Leigh! Much love right back at you!
Glad you are finding your way Aimee! Happy for you!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Connie❤️
Happy Tuesday, Graham...thank-you for sharing another piece of your writing with us!
As a single mom to three daughters, I spent more time in the “here” to keep us going each day without much thought, time or energy to get to the “there”. As my youngest left college, more time emerged to begin to focus on the transition as to the “there” and what that looked like. I enjoy watching my daughters living their”here”, being in the moment far better than I could raising them, to get themselves to their “there”.
I am presently the full time caregiver to my mother so, my “here” has me focused on getting us to “there”.....enjoying and being grateful for every day, every activity, every laugh, every “that was a great day”.
Some day will be my time to focus on my “here” to get me to my “there” but for now I’m grateful for my time spent in the “here” to raise three amazing young women who are living their “here”...their best life and quite enjoying myself. Also, very grateful that I can give my mother her “here” and “there”!
Blessings to you, Graham on your journey and as always keep your light shining!🙏🏼💞
Cindy…I’m impressed with your positive attitude…and remember Graham’s words in a previous poem…”me first”…that time will come for you.🙏
Thank-you. Danny for your kind words💝 Some days take a little more love & laughter but there is always something to appreciate and to be grateful for.
Cindy I admire your boldness raising your 3 daughters and caring for your mom alone.I will be praying for you and thank you for sharing your journey.
Thank-you, Elisa🙏🏼💞
Cindy, sounds like you have had a lot on your hands, but have taken it in your stride with a positive attitude that amazing me. Blessings to you & your family. 🙏
Thank-you, Christine for your kind words. It wasn’t always easy, but, we did it with lots of love and laughter! Love and laughter may be even more important now with my caregiver role!😊
Cindy I understand what you are saying and I love that you are proud and happy for your girls as they experience their lives. I am so impressed that you can care for your mother and feel gratitude about that even tho maybe one might think this was your time & resent that. You are a very kind person!❤️❤️❤️
Thank-you, Teresa for your very kind words. I am very proud of my three girls and what the four of us accomplished....it wasn’t always easy but I do believe it has made them the kindhearted, strong, adventurous young women they are today. I must say being a caregiver has its moments when it is a very hard struggle but then I remind myself what it must be like for this beautiful woman I am blessed to call my mom. Have a great day!
Good morning Graham happy Tuesday my favourite day! Good morning my substack friends .What a blessed day! I thank God for my life I always thank God for another day as I wake up in the morning and a good night’s rest too.I love my life I have a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.With my age of 79 I just take one day at a time.It is only Him who holds the future,what is next to come we do not know.My mobility is now limited due to arthritis and hip replacements (both) my only wish and prayers for now is to have a family reunion with my children and grandchildren when I turn 80 next year.My prayers is that my children and grandchildren will all be available to attend our reunion next year.I pray that I will still be able to travel by that time.Our reunion will be held in the Philippines which is my point of origin.My children are scattered all over the globe.If everyone will be gathered together it will be amazing.I will close my both eyes happily and contentedly .God bless everyone.
I pray that your family can be together with you on such a special birthday🎂. 🙏
Thank you Christine
Sending prayers and holding your positive vision that your glorious reunion will be able to happen, Elisa🙏🏼💞
Thank you Cindy God is our strength to help us in our journey . He will enable me to tread my heights. God bless you Cindy
Eliza I will be praying for your trip home to the Philippines.
I will greatly appreciate it Lucy Bernas you are an amazing friend and child of God
I am 82 yrs old so I don't know how much of a future I have but I intend to live "here" to the best of my ability. I can still take my walks (when the heat is not so oppressive) I can still do HIIT exercises and I can still get on my knees before God. Life is good!!!
Delores I am impressed with your attitude and your exercise logo…bless you.🙏
Thanks Danny. God has given me good health,I feel it is up to me to do whatever I can to maintain it.
Amen Delores!
Donna Armstrong
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I love Tuesdays. I so look forward to your poems Graham. I always feel that they are directed right at me. I didn't comment right away on todays poem. I needed to think a bit. Next Monday marks the 6th Anniversary of my husbands death. Yesterday, I started putting away some of his things that I still had out. His "Harley" hats. A piece of the leather from his motorcycle gas tank decoration that someone had framed for us. Which tells me that its time for me to leave the "past". I have spent enough time dwelling on the loss and my old life. The "Here" no longer appeals to me either. Its the "There" that has gotten my attention, piqued my curiouslity. I am looking forward to a new chapter in my life. I'm nervous about it. Between my age and what could be a health issue, its scary. My kids are pretty far away. So leaving them is not an issue. I worry about losing friends. But then Donny Mac asked me "why would I lose them". And he is right. They will always remain my friends. My "there" should prove interesting in hopefully the not too distant future.
Prayers for you Donna and you will not loose me and yes thanks to Graham community we are blessed to be friends.
Donna I lost my husband 11 years ago but still remember how difficult it was to turn loose of some of his things. I took my time and loosened the ties as I felt compelled. It is not the things but him that I miss and he is always in my heart. Almost two years ago, after much prayer, and I was totally comfort with the decision, I moved 500 miles away from family and friends, but they are still very much my family and friends...Best of luck to you and God bless.
oh Delores, thank you so much for this. 500 miles? So very far. That just amazes me.
Donna~ I am happy for you that you are entertaining and embracing a transition from your “here” to a new “there” for you. Change can be very scary but can be beautiful and so rewarding. Only you can decide when the “time” is right to make that change and it sounds like your “Time Has Come”! How fitting since Graham is the reason we are all a part of this beautiful and very supportive community. This community proves that we are located all over the world and still remain friends! 💝 Prayers and hugs!🙏🏼💞
Cindy, thank you for your wise words. The Time Has Come. I love that.
Donna, I too lost my husband a few years ago. I lived in the past too long & I have tried to not live there but I find comfort there. It’s not a healthy comfort for me though. I am trying to live only in the now, not think too much about the past nor the future. If I am happy for the afternoon or evening, I try not to question it just happy, grateful, content in those feelings. Take care ❤️❤️❤️
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I remember Donny Mac saying that to you. He is right. I enjoyed talking with you after that LIVE. We should plan on meeting soon. As others have said, you will not lose me as a friend, take care and God bless! 🙏🏻❤️
We were planning to visit our friend in Moorhead NC as he retired now and visit our few friends in Jacksonville and Havelock after I can travel . We should plan this Anne and we can walk at the beach.
I would love to meet you Lucy and be included on this beach walk.
Me too I used to travel International by myself meeting few of my friends thru our medical missions and most prior military life as we were stationed in NC . After I am thru this beautification journey I want to travel again and meet with other friends.
Lucy, I would love that. I’m about 4 hours from the beach, but I can surely drive there which is something I enjoy.
I am trying very hard to find a way to Nashville. I would so love to meet Donny.
Prayers for you Donna as you make those decisions about your future. You know we are all here for you. Much love. 🙏❤️
I do know that Leigh. Thank You
Donna be strong my friend God will always be with you.Just look up and ask guidance and direction from him.You will never get lost my friend. Blessings to you.
Thank You so much Elisa, for the words. also If your Mrs. Bell, know that I love you. lol ♥
I wish you all the very best as you move to a new stage in your life. 🙏
Thank You Christine!
Thats wonderful Donna!
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I have met so many "new" friends which you are included in. Thanks for your prayers.
Graham, such a fun poem and thought provoking questions. Having recently faced feelings from the past (the there) that I had been holding onto, I find I’m giving myself the time to enjoy the blessings of my life. The past has brought me to where I am today, I can’t change it but can use what I have learned along the way to live and be present here in this moment of my life. Am embracing where I am now in my life, trusting that God will continue to guide me on my life’s journey, and give thanks for the unknown blessings that are on their way.
This quote by Max Ehrmann, reminds me of advice that Graham has shared, especially the first line.
“ Be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe.
No less than the trees and the stars.
In the noisy confusion of life,
Keep peace in your soul”
Agree, we need to be more kind to ourselves & gentle as well. We seem to always be in a rush these days, and we need to slow and be a part of life like you appear to be doing Linda. 🙏💕
Linda~I hadn’t read this quote from Max Ehrmann for some time so I’m grateful for you sharing it here. I needed the “Be gentle with yourself” reminder today. Thank-you!🙏🏼💞
Love that Linda! We do need to be gentle with our soul. Blessings to you!🙏🏻❤️